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Steve Savicki
05-03-2005, 02:57 PM
After this:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7692019/?GT1=6542

maybe marriage isn't what it's cracked up to be.

bueno bob
05-03-2005, 03:00 PM
It's not a bad deal, you just have to take your time to make sure you marry the right person.

It's not for everybody...and frankly, if there was ANY notion in my head that divorce would be the end result, I'd never do it at all.

Bill Lumbergh
05-03-2005, 03:02 PM
Hey, my wife and I took nearly 8 years to get married........when she was pregnant with our 4th child!

Hardrock69
05-03-2005, 04:31 PM
Well, crazy as it sounds, I subscribe to the belief that there is someone out there for everybody.

I have not found my "someone" yet.

Even though to have a "love for life" is a great thing, I have heard so many horror stories about peeps getting taken to the cleaners by their former spouse, that I would prefer to just meet my "someone" and live in sin forever and ever amen.

Hardrock69
05-03-2005, 04:32 PM
Wow Bill...LMFAO @ your sig...

bueno bob
05-03-2005, 04:37 PM
Originally posted by Hardrock69
Well, crazy as it sounds, I subscribe to the belief that there is someone out there for everybody.

I have not found my "someone" yet.

Even though to have a "love for life" is a great thing, I have heard so many horror stories about peeps getting taken to the cleaners by their former spouse, that I would prefer to just meet my "someone" and live in sin forever and ever amen.

I've found my special someone. Haven't met her in person yet...she's the bitch in my signature...when we meet, she will fall hopelessly in love with me and allow me to, ahem..."enjoy" her breasts all day in whatever fashion I see fit, and I will therefore be very happy.

Warham
05-03-2005, 04:40 PM
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col5150
05-03-2005, 04:45 PM
i love reading shit like that, im tying the knot on the 2nd of July. To anyone out there whos thinkin bout it be prepared for the most stressfull year of your life leading up to a wedding, not having an opinion on anything really helps avoid fighting about wedding favours and crap every 2 minutes

Vinnie Velvet
05-03-2005, 04:51 PM
Its all good.

And as Bueno said, as long as its the right person.

So, if it takes you some time, take it!

Ally_Kat
05-03-2005, 07:51 PM
Originally posted by bueno bob
if there was ANY notion in my head that divorce would be the end result, I'd never do it at all.

amen, sir

kentuckyklira
05-03-2005, 07:55 PM
There hasnīt been a second in my life that I have considered marriage!

Dr. Love
05-03-2005, 08:25 PM
Sure, I'd love to get married someday. Right about the time I get the idea that I want to give away 50% of all my money and assets that I currently own and will ever own in the future. :)

guwapo_rocker
05-04-2005, 09:08 AM
Marriage is great!!

Just don't try to assemble Ikea furniture or a new barbeque together!! :D

Trust me.

Figs
05-04-2005, 09:13 AM
Originally posted by Steve Savicki
Who here wants to get married?

well, you're a good guy and all, but you're just not my type....

Matt White
05-04-2005, 11:19 AM
Ooohhh....S-N-A-P!!!!

bueno bob
05-04-2005, 12:05 PM
Originally posted by Warham
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THAT'S JUST GRATE!!!

Cathedral
05-04-2005, 12:15 PM
I've been married twice, never divorced, and will never marry again.
It's one thing to say your vows, it's another thing to have to live each and every one of them through.

To some they are just words, to others, a painful reality that chills the heart to the point it demands eternal solitude.

Nitro Express
05-04-2005, 01:20 PM
My grandmother always used to say, if you aren't seeing fireworks she/he isn't good enough. I've been married 15 years and grandma was right.

Your marriage will be tested. With kids coming into it, inlaws, financial challenges, differeneces of opinion, and even religiouse idealology.

The person who marry should make you horny as hell but also be someone you like to hang around as a friend. Looks matter and personality matters. If you marry for one or the other but not both, you are playing a fools came.

You make a marriage work. It's like the both of you are tossed into some survival situation and you swore a blood oathe you were going to help each other get through it. That's what those marriage vows are.

Marriage should be,"Don't worry, I got your ass! We're a team!" There shouldn't be cheating of any kind because nothing destroys a great team better than distrust.

A marriage should be like Cosa Nostra "We have our thing, keep it in the family, and loyalty". LOL!

Vinnie Velvet
05-04-2005, 03:41 PM
Ya know, I think its harder for guys to settle down with one woman and be married than for girls to settle down with one man.

For us, we STILL love looking at other beautiful women (no harm in looking!) and we still love watching Porn and still love going to the nudie bars.

But when it gets to the point that 'looking' becomes 'touching' when you're married to someone else, that's when you should re-think why you're married in the first place.

Mezro
05-04-2005, 04:12 PM
Originally posted by col5150
i love reading shit like that, im tying the knot on the 2nd of July

Get a prenup or you will be one sorry fucker.

Mezro...oh and congratulations...;)

col5150
05-04-2005, 07:20 PM
my prenump goes like this 'the guitars are mine' end of, fuck everything else ha ha

Carmine
05-04-2005, 08:37 PM
Originally posted by col5150
i love reading shit like that, im tying the knot on the 2nd of July. To anyone out there whos thinkin bout it be prepared for the most stressfull year of your life leading up to a wedding, not having an opinion on anything really helps avoid fighting about wedding favours and crap every 2 minutes

First, My birthday is July 2nd.

Second, congratulations!!

third, Nothin for nothin...but, I would NOT reccomend marriage to anyone!:rolleyes:

Fairwrning
05-04-2005, 08:47 PM
Originally posted by bueno bob

It's not for everybody...and frankly, if there was ANY notion in my head that divorce would be the end result, I'd never do it at all.

I don't think anybody says "i do" and knows it's gonna end up in divorce...
I get along better with my ex now than i did when we were married..kind of a "mutual admiration", if you will..
When we got divorced.. i told her whayt i could afford in child support and she agreed..no bullshit lawyers involved...

Steve Savicki
05-04-2005, 10:57 PM
Bob, great advice.

Dr. Love, great philosophy.

Fair warning, great problem solving.

Figs, good to see you again.

Matt White
05-05-2005, 12:33 AM
I'm not the marrying type

NATEDOG001976
05-05-2005, 12:41 AM
Jesus fucking christ, say no to marriage! I'm 29, a Gen X'er (The divorce generation..lol) I'm in no hurry to get married. or get in another relationship. School and career are my top priorities right now. I've had some fucked up relationships and have gotten burned...it's funny, when you take yourself off the market, girls want you even more. Fuck it, I'm having a blast whackin it!

Steve Savicki
05-05-2005, 07:10 AM
Great... The divorce generation... what's the next generation going to be like?
And how did you come up with Gen X'er?

NATEDOG001976
05-05-2005, 11:50 PM
Because I am a Gen x'er....I was born in 1976. Anyone who was born between 1968-1979 I believe is a Generation X'er.

Ned Flanders
05-06-2005, 07:30 AM
Gosh Darn it, I don't know if I'll ever marry again,
I feel like I'm cheating on Maude.

flappo
05-06-2005, 10:10 AM
i wonder if katy will ever get married again ?

Ally_Kat
05-06-2005, 11:57 AM
Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
Because I am a Gen x'er....I was born in 1976. Anyone who was born between 1968-1979 I believe is a Generation X'er.

I thought it went to 1981? Cuz I'm 1983 and I'm a second year Millennial.

Steve Savicki
05-06-2005, 02:57 PM
Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
Because I am a Gen x'er....I was born in 1976. Anyone who was born between 1968-1979 I believe is a Generation X'er.
This is new to me.
Where did you get this info?

jacksmar
05-06-2005, 03:02 PM
I'm not the marrying type either. I should know, I'm on my third marriage.
:eek:

LadyTudor2711
05-08-2005, 08:32 PM
Originally posted by Mezro
Get a prenup or you will be one sorry fucker.

Mezro...oh and congratulations...;)

Both parties should have prenups. Assuming that only men have money is a misnomer. It is simply good business practice and will simplify things when they end, which they eventually do.

LT

scottydabodi
05-09-2005, 12:18 AM
Marriage?!?? I can't tolerate a chick for more than two weeks before I tell 'em to hid the skids...

Maybe it's cuz I don't date girls that speak much English... hmm....

RuzDNailz
05-09-2005, 12:55 AM
You know what, Marriage is a great thing. My Brother is getting Married late this summer. I would marry someone I can see myself growing old with. Anybody see those websites for mailorder brides? Some are actually pretty cute, but I wouldn't do it. You always meet the right person when you least expect it. For this subject matter, plugging in a Jeff Foxworthy CD is what brightens up this topic. Once married, I don't ever want to be single again...although I'd miss those nights of being wild and crazy.

Water down the hatch! :gulp:

scottydabodi
05-09-2005, 01:01 AM
Originally posted by RuzDNailz
...Anybody see those websites for mailorder brides? Some are actually pretty cute, but I wouldn't do it...

Yeah, SURE, Ruz... sure:)

Panamark
05-09-2005, 02:16 AM
Me !! I want to marry Mary Frances :yankeeros

EbDawson
05-09-2005, 06:51 AM
"Kids, just say no to marraige." Al Bundy

DavidLeeNatra
05-09-2005, 08:28 AM
never again...