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Ally_Kat
04-15-2006, 11:15 PM
Interviews by Elisabet Alexandre. Photographs by Elena Dorfman


The men who have sex with dolls


She's 'perfect' and agrees to whatever her man desires. The only thing is, she's plastic. We expose the disturbing phenomenon of men who reject real women in favour of silicone.

Sidore is as real to me as a human woman,' explains Davecat, right, 28, a lab technician from Detroit in the US, as he gazes lovingly at the slim, raven-haired creature beside him. 'I imagine most people think anyone who loves dolls is a pervert, but I feel normal,' he says. 'And with my silicone girlfriend, I'm part of a couple who are infinitely healthier and happier than most couples.'

Davecat paid over £4,000 for his perfect woman, Sidore, an eerily lifelike silicone doll with silky hair, manicured nails and breasts that jiggle realistically. Rather than rely on fate to lead him to his life partner, Davecat had his spouse custom-made by American manufacturer RealDolls, set up by Matt McMullen ten years ago to meet the growing demand for realistic sex dolls.

Sidore, one of hundreds of dolls that are painstakingly handmade by McMullen, has all the attributes of a real woman, including a vagina. 'I tested the physical parts of these dolls,' he admits. 'When you put something in a silicone entry, it's got this suction that a real woman couldn't have, so it's more intense than the real thing.'

Doll lovers claim their unhealthy pursuit is not just about carnal pleasure. For Malcolm (final page), a 48-year-old British IT specialist, his plastic companion is a silent soulmate – someone to love, trust and share his life with, knowing she'll never desert him. A grey-haired recluse living in south-west England, Malcolm has not had a successful relationship with a woman. 'I've never had any success with relationships, and it's badly affected my quality of life,' he admits. 'When I've tried to joke with a woman on a date, I've felt like people nearby are looking at me, embarrassed on my behalf.'

Recently made redundant, Malcolm now spends his days writing a novel about airline pilots, his other passion in life. After a last attempt with a dating agency, Malcolm came across RealDolls online. 'I bought Rebecca a few months ago with the money left from my redundancy payment,' he recalls. 'In my imagination, she's 14 and earns pocket money by working in her school library. 'She's very important to me,' he continues. 'I feel affection for her which goes beyond sexual desire.'

The way Malcolm speaks of Rebecca leaves you wondering whether, at best, he is a fantasist or, at worst, psychotic with paedophile tendencies. Psychologist Ron Bracey is alarmed that these dolls allow their owners to indulge in fantasies that would be criminal acts in the real world. 'Who knows where consciousness begins,' Malcolm muses, worringly. 'Think of the Frankenstein monster, made from bits of dead bodies and brought to life by a flash of lightning. Is he dead or alive? A lot of people treat their dogs like children, so why is it mad to imagine a doll has feelings when she looks far more like a real woman than a dog looks like a child?'

McMullen is cashing in on his customers' proclivities, charging an extra £140 for dolls with vaginal, anal and oral entries. 'It's tricky to get everything working down there,' he says. 'Everything has to fit a certain space and it takes time.' He also styles the dolls' pubic hair to order, offering everything from a Brazilian to a 'natural'. His clientele are mostly single, ranging from twentysomethings to pensioners, and over half work in IT or engineering.

So, will these men ever be capable of forming a sexual relationship with an equal, 'real' woman? For some, it seems unlikely. Davecat says: 'Sidore gives me so much. I love her for what she is – my anchor, support, lover and confidante.'

THE PSYCHOLOGIST'S VIEW
'The behaviour of these men is very unhealthy,' says clinical psychologist Ron Bracey. 'They are motivated by the desire to avoid rejection. They also share a need for control, which is demonstrated by the pleasure they take in designing their ideal woman, then making all the moves and decisions in their “partner's” life. This control fixation is usually a reaction to a bad experience, where sex has been a source of humiliation. These dolls allow their owners to indulge in fantasies which would be criminal acts in the real world, such as under-age sex. The doll could either be an outlet for this desire or, worringly, make the man more likely to act it out in real life.'


there's more, but it's in the May issue of Marie Claire, which I do not have

http://www.marieclaire.co.uk/reports/The_men_who_have_sex_with_dolls_article_83159.html

Ally_Kat
04-15-2006, 11:20 PM
and, of course, the first guy has a blog -- http://sixsixsixties.blogspot.com/

Flash Bastard
04-15-2006, 11:29 PM
Quote from article...
'I bought Rebecca a few months ago with the money left from my redundancy payment,' he recalls. 'In my imagination, she's 14 and earns pocket money by working in her school library.'

:lol: :asshole:

guwapo_rocker
04-15-2006, 11:38 PM
Originally posted by Ally_Kat
'In my imagination, she's 14

A doll fucking kid diddler....great. These things are enablers.

ashstralia
04-15-2006, 11:39 PM
that's just sick and wrong.

i've seen pics of these 'real dolls',
and they don't look too real to me.

guwapo_rocker
04-15-2006, 11:43 PM
This is Tammi.....

http://s03.picshome.com/68d/tami4.jpg (http://www.picshome.com/)

No, she's not mine....

diamondsgirl
04-15-2006, 11:56 PM
Originally posted by Ally_Kat

'When I've tried to joke with a woman on a date, I've felt like people nearby are looking at me, embarrassed on my behalf.'



and I wonder what onlookers think of this guy joking with his doll on a date?

Ally_Kat
04-16-2006, 12:23 AM
Originally posted by diamondsgirl
and I wonder what onlookers think of this guy joking with his doll on a date?

You think he takes it on a date? Let's be serious. Most of the guys who have one don't regard women as much anything other than objects. And thru this, they don't have to worry about her spending money, getting fat, or getting knocked up with their friend Bob's kid. They put the doll in their bedroom closet and go on with their lives.

Dr. Love
04-16-2006, 12:37 AM
Ah what the hell, I'd hit that.

guwapo_rocker
04-16-2006, 12:42 AM
Originally posted by Dr. Love
Ah what the hell, I'd hit that.

She does have nice tits!!

bueno bob
04-16-2006, 03:55 AM
Originally posted by Ally_Kat
Most of the guys who have one don't regard women as much anything other than objects. And thru this, they don't have to worry about her spending money, getting fat, or getting knocked up with their friend Bob's kid.

That's a very real concern for a lot of guys I know, actually.

;)

FORD
04-16-2006, 04:10 AM
Originally posted by Ally_Kat
You think he takes it on a date? Let's be serious. Most of the guys who have one don't regard women as much anything other than objects. And thru this, they don't have to worry about her spending money, getting fat, or getting knocked up with their friend Bob's kid. They put the doll in their bedroom closet and go on with their lives.

But what if you broke into this dude's house when he wasn't home and injected some liquid silicone in the doll's abdominal region. Then a few months later, come back and leave one of those realistic looking baby dolls.

Stupid ass would probably believe he was a daddy.

bueno bob
04-16-2006, 04:14 AM
That would be some funny shit to do, for sure...

HAHAHA

FORD
04-16-2006, 04:23 AM
Scary thing is that there's a doll on that website that could be a dead ringer for a chick I was in love with in high school.

That's where the interest ends for me though. Hell, I don't like real women to just lay there and do nothing, I sure as Hell ain't paying for a doll to do so.

FORD
04-16-2006, 04:35 AM
Some funny shit in the FAQ at that site though...

http://www.realdoll.com/faq.asp

mako_kimura
04-16-2006, 09:17 AM
Originally posted by FORD
Some funny shit in the FAQ at that site though...

http://www.realdoll.com/faq.asp

Holy shit. Some sick fuckers want hermaphrodites and shemales. It's bad enough buying one of those disturbing things, but come on. And by the way, if ya look on the dude's blogspot, he gave the doll one too...:mad:

Dave's Bitch
04-16-2006, 09:52 AM
"Question: I'm a crossdresser interested in a full body silicone female skin. Can I buy a REALDOLL skin or can you tell me where I can get a silicone female body suit? "

LMAO
just like silence of the lambs

Dave's Bitch
04-16-2006, 09:54 AM
LOL they created a gallery for each of um in "sexy poses"

LoungeMachine
04-16-2006, 10:42 AM
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mako_kimura
04-16-2006, 10:52 AM
Originally posted by LoungeMachine
I will NOT click on Ally's Link
I will NOT click on Ally's Link
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Why should you? She transcribed the damn article

LoungeMachine
04-16-2006, 11:00 AM
Originally posted by mako_kimura
Why should you? She transcribed the damn article



Originally posted by Ally_Kat
and, of course, the first guy has a blog -- http://sixsixsixties.blogspot.com/


Think before you post.

The joke obviously went over your head.

guwapo_rocker
04-16-2006, 11:08 AM
Originally posted by LoungeMachine


The joke obviously went over your head.

Look up. Look waaaaaaay up:D

Lindsay Lohan
04-16-2006, 11:20 AM
OMG, I should totally market a Lindsay Lohan doll! All of you dirty boyz would be buyin' up like they were goin' outta style! OMG! WTF! LOL! I need to get on that!

mako_kimura
04-16-2006, 11:26 AM
Originally posted by LoungeMachine
Think before you post.

The joke obviously went over your head.

I'm not quite awake yet...

Nickdfresh
04-16-2006, 11:26 AM
LOL $6500 can get you along way with real women...

bueno bob
04-16-2006, 11:35 AM
Originally posted by Nickdfresh
LOL $6500 can get you along way with real women...

A LOT of real women, to boot...

And they don't ask questions or nag, either, unless you order that specifically.

jhale667
04-16-2006, 05:57 PM
Originally posted by FORD
Hell, I don't like real women to just lay there and do nothing, I sure as Hell ain't paying for a doll to do so.


Exactly.

Diamondjimi
04-17-2006, 12:31 AM
I call it legal necrophelia ............

jhale667
04-17-2006, 12:33 AM
Originally posted by diamondjimi
I call it legal necrophelia ............

So true. I remember watching the Stern show when they had the real doll on the set, and she looked like the cadaver in the corner...

WARF
04-17-2006, 12:40 AM
I'd fuck her and have a relationship!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/16635065@N00/69937643/in/photostream/

WARF
04-17-2006, 12:51 AM
I'd fuck her in the butt and pussy!

uh u hu hu hu hu huh u hu

Ally_Kat
04-17-2006, 12:59 AM
Originally posted by FORD
Some funny shit in the FAQ at that site though...

http://www.realdoll.com/faq.asp

the fact that you went thru the site scares me

:D

Ally_Kat
04-17-2006, 01:06 AM
there's a book!

http://www.still-lovers.com/BuyStill-Lovers.html

FORD
04-17-2006, 01:08 AM
Originally posted by Ally_Kat
the fact that you went thru the site scares me

:D

I plead temporary insanity due to permanent insomnia.

Hardrock69
04-17-2006, 11:07 AM
Joe Thudner asked the guy to make him a real doll of a 5-year-old boy, but the guy refused.

ashstralia
04-17-2006, 11:54 AM
Originally posted by Hardrock69
Joe Thudner asked the guy to make him a real doll of a 5-year-old boy, but the guy refused.


boom tish! :)

Terry
04-17-2006, 03:34 PM
Originally posted by Lindsay Lohan
OMG, I should totally market a Lindsay Lohan doll! All of you dirty boyz would be buyin' up like they were goin' outta style! OMG! WTF! LOL! I need to get on that!

OMG!!

WTF!!

LOL!!!

Totally!!!

Terry
04-17-2006, 03:36 PM
Am just waiting for the day Tyrell Corporation finally starts mass producing pleasure model replicants.

Program it to do nothing other than clean house, make dinner, get fucked and keep it's yapping bitch trap shut.

Hardrock69
04-17-2006, 04:03 PM
No shit. I want one that looks like this:

http://www.blade-runner.it/images/gallery/pris/snap059313.jpg

bastardog
04-17-2006, 05:08 PM
Originally posted by Ally_Kat
His clientele are mostly single, ranging from twentysomethings to pensioners, and over half work in IT or engineering.

:( I'm starting to think I selected the wrong career. Been on IT put me one step closer to those crazy guys...

WARF
04-17-2006, 05:12 PM
LMAO @ The Joe Thunder boy doll!!!

Diamondjimi
04-17-2006, 06:35 PM
Jesus H !

I checked out the link... They look like a bunch of dead hookers !

Terry
04-17-2006, 09:25 PM
Originally posted by Hardrock69
No shit. I want one that looks like this:

http://www.blade-runner.it/images/gallery/pris/snap059313.jpg

Pris.

Your basic Off-World pleasure model.

She can do her gymnastics routine and land a perfect 10, slapping those thighs right onto my ears (although it was creepy to find out that the series of moves done right before Deckard shoots her were performed by a dude).