Hardrock69
11-26-2011, 05:16 AM
Ok. So I happened to think of this as a somewhat original idea for a thread after my Mom blew my mind yesterday.
Was over there doing the turkey day thing. We are all holding up fairly well, considering the circumstances.
Anyway, some years ago, my Mom told me something I had never heard before.
She was engaged to another guy before she met my Dad.
I was like "WTF??? Do tell!".
Mom met Dad in about 1954-55 time frame. They were married in June 1956. Another great thing about my parents. Married for 55 years. Till death did they part.
Anyway, my Mom had a girlfriend in college who was going out with some guy. Dude was from NYC and was going to college in Wichita....we'll just call him "Paul".
Mom's girlfriend breaks up with the guy..... Mom starts going out with him. They get engaged. But Paul had a full scholarship to some Ivy League college....super smart straight A guy and all the major schools wanted him. He wanted Mom to go with him, but she was determined to get her degree before leaving town, and decided against it. So Paul left.....eventually got in touch with Mom to tell her he had married someone else, etc.
So.....last night Mom adds something to the story I had never heard before......and what I found out really blew my mind.
Paul was going home for the summer (this was 1952), and invited his girlfriend (my Mom's friend) to go to NYC for the summer for vacation, and said she could bring her sister. Sister could not go, Mom got invited and went.
So they get there. Paul's family lived in Brooklyn. Mom and her friend were staying at the YWCA for 2 bucks a night.
First day they go to Paul's home and they are hanging out for awhile. Paul tells his Dad that he is going to take them to see a friend of his. Mom said Paul and his Dad traded a look that was pretty significant, though Mom had no idea what it meant until decades later.
They go to a modest 3 story brownstone in Brooklyn and ring the doorbell. Door is answered by a nice lady who is Paul's friend's mother apparently. She invites them in, says Paul's friend is up on the third floor in the rec room.
They go up there, and Paul's friend and a couple of other young people are playing billiards. At the end of the room, in a chair is an older man, in his 50s. Paul immediately brought his girlfriend and my Mom over to him and introduced them. Mom said he asked where they were from, and was told "Kansas", to which he replied "Where's Kansas?".
Mom said he absolutely gave her the creeps. She knew immediately she was in the presence of a man who seemed to have a lot of power, with eyes that just had that look of someone who was extremely dangerous.
So.....Mom and her friend spent the rest of the summer in New York City, then went back to Wichita.
Then things happened in the order my Mom mentioned to me some years ago...girlfriend broke up with Paul, Mom got engaged to him, then he left town, never to return.
She eventually went to another major University in the South....where she met my Dad, and the rest is history.
So....Mom told me last night that back in the late 80s-early 90s she happened to be watching cable, and there was a documentary on about John Gotti...the Dapper Don. They were giving a bunch of background history on the Five Families in NYC.....showing images of some of the major players....and Mom said she suddenly recognized one of the photos.....it was that man she had met in 1952 that gave her the chills....and suddenly she remembered the look Paul had given his Dad when he said he was going to his friend's house.
Seems his friend's Dad was a "Godfather".
Mom said when she saw that it really blew her mind.
Needless to say, when she told me this last night if tripped me out.
She said though that she could not recall the man's name, but that his first name began with the letter C, and that she would recognize the name if she heard it, and would surely recognize a photo of the man.
So I walked right over to the computer, Googled Brooklyn Crime Families Mafia 1952, and came up with Carmine Persico....I asked her if that sounded right and she said no......so then I found someone else, found a photo of him, and just asked her to come have a look....she did and said it really looked like him, but a younger version.
It was a mugshot from the 1930s of Carlo Gambino.
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/6/62/Carlo_Gambino.jpg/200px-Carlo_Gambino.jpg
And when I told her who it was, she said that was him........
She had begun the conversation by asking me if she had ever told me how she met a "Godfather".
Says on Gambino's Wikipedia page that he lived modestly in a row house in Brooklyn and had 3 sons and a daughter. He was born in 1902, so in 1952 he would have been 50, and that put him in the right age range for the man my Mom met.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carlo_Gambino
So I asked my Mom....."You didn't do him any favors did you?" And she laughed and said "OH NO!". And I said "Good for you....because once you do a favor for someone in the Mob...you are going to be in their debt for life!"
Every now and then Mom springs a story on me I have never heard before, but this one really takes the cake.
Along the lines of my Mom being engaged to a man BEFORE my Dad, Mom had told me 10 years ago or so that her Mom, my Grandma, had been been engaged to a man in the early 1920s before she met my Grandpa, that it was a relationship based on money (gee...Grandma was a golddigger?), and the guy was a staunch Catholic and was an asshole, which amazed me, because it explained to me why in the 1960s anyone would mention Catholics to my Grandma she would get pretty pissed off and would start cussing about them, lol.
So sitting here, typing this out, I figured this is a sort of original thread idea.
Did your parents spring any stories on you in their later years about something fantastical that happened to them when they were younger? Or something about someone you had met or were related to that you found hard to believe? Something they had never told you before?
Was over there doing the turkey day thing. We are all holding up fairly well, considering the circumstances.
Anyway, some years ago, my Mom told me something I had never heard before.
She was engaged to another guy before she met my Dad.
I was like "WTF??? Do tell!".
Mom met Dad in about 1954-55 time frame. They were married in June 1956. Another great thing about my parents. Married for 55 years. Till death did they part.
Anyway, my Mom had a girlfriend in college who was going out with some guy. Dude was from NYC and was going to college in Wichita....we'll just call him "Paul".
Mom's girlfriend breaks up with the guy..... Mom starts going out with him. They get engaged. But Paul had a full scholarship to some Ivy League college....super smart straight A guy and all the major schools wanted him. He wanted Mom to go with him, but she was determined to get her degree before leaving town, and decided against it. So Paul left.....eventually got in touch with Mom to tell her he had married someone else, etc.
So.....last night Mom adds something to the story I had never heard before......and what I found out really blew my mind.
Paul was going home for the summer (this was 1952), and invited his girlfriend (my Mom's friend) to go to NYC for the summer for vacation, and said she could bring her sister. Sister could not go, Mom got invited and went.
So they get there. Paul's family lived in Brooklyn. Mom and her friend were staying at the YWCA for 2 bucks a night.
First day they go to Paul's home and they are hanging out for awhile. Paul tells his Dad that he is going to take them to see a friend of his. Mom said Paul and his Dad traded a look that was pretty significant, though Mom had no idea what it meant until decades later.
They go to a modest 3 story brownstone in Brooklyn and ring the doorbell. Door is answered by a nice lady who is Paul's friend's mother apparently. She invites them in, says Paul's friend is up on the third floor in the rec room.
They go up there, and Paul's friend and a couple of other young people are playing billiards. At the end of the room, in a chair is an older man, in his 50s. Paul immediately brought his girlfriend and my Mom over to him and introduced them. Mom said he asked where they were from, and was told "Kansas", to which he replied "Where's Kansas?".
Mom said he absolutely gave her the creeps. She knew immediately she was in the presence of a man who seemed to have a lot of power, with eyes that just had that look of someone who was extremely dangerous.
So.....Mom and her friend spent the rest of the summer in New York City, then went back to Wichita.
Then things happened in the order my Mom mentioned to me some years ago...girlfriend broke up with Paul, Mom got engaged to him, then he left town, never to return.
She eventually went to another major University in the South....where she met my Dad, and the rest is history.
So....Mom told me last night that back in the late 80s-early 90s she happened to be watching cable, and there was a documentary on about John Gotti...the Dapper Don. They were giving a bunch of background history on the Five Families in NYC.....showing images of some of the major players....and Mom said she suddenly recognized one of the photos.....it was that man she had met in 1952 that gave her the chills....and suddenly she remembered the look Paul had given his Dad when he said he was going to his friend's house.
Seems his friend's Dad was a "Godfather".
Mom said when she saw that it really blew her mind.
Needless to say, when she told me this last night if tripped me out.
She said though that she could not recall the man's name, but that his first name began with the letter C, and that she would recognize the name if she heard it, and would surely recognize a photo of the man.
So I walked right over to the computer, Googled Brooklyn Crime Families Mafia 1952, and came up with Carmine Persico....I asked her if that sounded right and she said no......so then I found someone else, found a photo of him, and just asked her to come have a look....she did and said it really looked like him, but a younger version.
It was a mugshot from the 1930s of Carlo Gambino.
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/6/62/Carlo_Gambino.jpg/200px-Carlo_Gambino.jpg
And when I told her who it was, she said that was him........
She had begun the conversation by asking me if she had ever told me how she met a "Godfather".
Says on Gambino's Wikipedia page that he lived modestly in a row house in Brooklyn and had 3 sons and a daughter. He was born in 1902, so in 1952 he would have been 50, and that put him in the right age range for the man my Mom met.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carlo_Gambino
So I asked my Mom....."You didn't do him any favors did you?" And she laughed and said "OH NO!". And I said "Good for you....because once you do a favor for someone in the Mob...you are going to be in their debt for life!"
Every now and then Mom springs a story on me I have never heard before, but this one really takes the cake.
Along the lines of my Mom being engaged to a man BEFORE my Dad, Mom had told me 10 years ago or so that her Mom, my Grandma, had been been engaged to a man in the early 1920s before she met my Grandpa, that it was a relationship based on money (gee...Grandma was a golddigger?), and the guy was a staunch Catholic and was an asshole, which amazed me, because it explained to me why in the 1960s anyone would mention Catholics to my Grandma she would get pretty pissed off and would start cussing about them, lol.
So sitting here, typing this out, I figured this is a sort of original thread idea.
Did your parents spring any stories on you in their later years about something fantastical that happened to them when they were younger? Or something about someone you had met or were related to that you found hard to believe? Something they had never told you before?