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  1. 02-01-2005, 12:07 PM #1
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    Tainted Love

    Are you tainted? Did someone ruin you for others? Is there one person in your past that you think of and it STILL hurts? I swear my very first "SERIOUS" relationship ruined me for other men. He was supposed to be the man I married but he cheated... We broke up...
    Some 20 odd years later while we are still great friends... I still harbor resentment and he knows it. I love him, but I hate him... Infact I don't think I spoke to him for like 17 years after it happened. It took me a while to succumb to my husband. Now that that's falling apart I think I am even MORE tainted. I think it's myself I don't trust. I just don't pick the keepers. In saying this, I'm certain that I have tainted a few GREAT guys in the process. I was a REAL bitch to men after the first heartbreak.

    How about YOU? Are you the tainted or the taintee?
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    You know me...I still got a smile on my face...No matter what!
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  3. 02-01-2005, 12:13 PM #3
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    Are you saying carmie that you never broke a heart or felt in crack in your own?
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    I think you know what I meant....


    I broke one heart...18 years old....stupid...the main reason I became the caring guy I am today. I think about her everyday...I made the mistake of putting myself first back then....If I only knew....the fact is, I did...I just didn't know what it meant.
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    A few years back, I find out one day that the guy I loved and my best friend of 18 years are sneaking around behind my back. I had no clue until just a few days before she called me and told me. I was destroyed. The two people I loved more than anything screwed me over! !

    And we all worked at the same place which made it so much worse, because I couldn't get away from it and everyone knew and felt the need to inform me of their gossip every chance they got.

    It took some Prozac, some counseling and A LOT of time to get over it. Happily today, I couldn't care less about either of them. Never got an apology. Things got real ugly between she and I for awhile, and then we just never spoke. He and I have never to this day spoke about it; but I heard through other people he wished he could go back in time and erase the whole thing. We don't live in the same town anymore, but I would still talk to him today if I saw him.

    Needless to say, it takes me a long time to get to a point where I can trust someone; and yes that screws up a lot of potential relationships.

    Oh yeah, they did not stay together; and they're both alone as far as I know.
    Same ole song and dance...
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    Originally posted by Northern Girl
    A few years back, I find out one day that the guy I loved and my best friend of 18 years are sneaking around behind my back. I had no clue until just a few days before she called me and told me. I was destroyed. The two people I loved more than anything screwed me over! !

    And we all worked at the same place which made it so much worse, because I couldn't get away from it and everyone knew and felt the need to inform me of their gossip every chance they got.

    It took some Prozac, some counseling and A LOT of time to get over it. Happily today, I couldn't care less about either of them. Never got an apology. Things got real ugly between she and I for awhile, and then we just never spoke. He and I have never to this day spoke about it; but I heard through other people he wished he could go back in time and erase the whole thing. We don't live in the same town anymore, but I would still talk to him today if I saw him.

    Needless to say, it takes me a long time to get to a point where I can trust someone; and yes that screws up a lot of potential relationships.

    Oh yeah, they did not stay together; and they're both alone as far as I know.
    This isn't the same girl that caused you to miss that VH show is it? If it is, I'd have a hit out on that chick lemmmme tell ya!
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    Originally posted by Carmine Raguzza.
    This isn't the same girl that caused you to miss that VH show is it? If it is, I'd have a hit out on that chick lemmmme tell ya!
    No, it's a different one. Let me tell you, I've had more friends screw me over than not!! Nice girls finish last, I guess.
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    Originally posted by Northern Girl
    No, it's a different one. Let me tell you, I've had more friends screw me over than not!! Nice girls finish last, I guess.
    So do nice guys....at least we finish with CLASS though NG....

    Screw em...
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  9. 02-01-2005, 01:05 PM #9
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    Nice girls do finish last... That is why I am NOT nice...
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    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    Are you tainted? Did someone ruin you for others? Is there one person in your past that you think of and it STILL hurts? I swear my very first "SERIOUS" relationship ruined me for other men. He was supposed to be the man I married but he cheated... We broke up...
    Some 20 odd years later while we are still great friends... I still harbor resentment and he knows it. I love him, but I hate him... Infact I don't think I spoke to him for like 17 years after it happened. It took me a while to succumb to my husband. Now that that's falling apart I think I am even MORE tainted. I think it's myself I don't trust. I just don't pick the keepers. In saying this, I'm certain that I have tainted a few GREAT guys in the process. I was a REAL bitch to men after the first heartbreak.

    How about YOU? Are you the tainted or the taintee?
    hjey, Fab, I don't have time to read the content of your post right now, but I'd love if you'd play with my taint! That's a real turn-on! Thanks!
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    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    Nice girls do finish last... That is why I am NOT nice...
    says who...



    Fab and Ng....nice girls and nice guys may finish last a series of times, before finally winning once!

    It only takes one win...then you never have to "finish" again!
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  12. 02-01-2005, 01:30 PM #12
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    Originally posted by academic punk
    hjey, Fab, I don't have time to read the content of your post right now, but I'd love if you'd play with my taint! That's a real turn-on! Thanks!
    Ok... Let me at it. But you may want to ck my references and make sure you're up to it...
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  13. 02-01-2005, 01:33 PM #13
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    Originally posted by Carmine Raguzza.
    says who...



    Fab and Ng....nice girls and nice guys may finish last a series of times, before finally winning once!

    It only takes one win...then you never have to "finish" again!
    I'm not looking to win at this point. I'm looking to break even!
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    Re: Tainted Love

    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    Are you tainted? Did someone ruin you for others? Is there one person in your past that you think of and it STILL hurts? I swear my very first "SERIOUS" relationship ruined me for other men. He was supposed to be the man I married but he cheated... We broke up...
    Some 20 odd years later while we are still great friends... I still harbor resentment and he knows it. I love him, but I hate him... Infact I don't think I spoke to him for like 17 years after it happened. It took me a while to succumb to my husband. Now that that's falling apart I think I am even MORE tainted. I think it's myself I don't trust. I just don't pick the keepers. In saying this, I'm certain that I have tainted a few GREAT guys in the process. I was a REAL bitch to men after the first heartbreak.

    How about YOU? Are you the tainted or the taintee?
    Wow your life sounds like a total mess right now. That's gotta suck.
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    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    Ok... Let me at it. But you may want to ck my references and make sure you're up to it...

    oh my god.

    I think I'm in lerv.
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  16. 02-01-2005, 01:39 PM #16
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    Re: Re: Tainted Love

    Originally posted by Jesterstar
    Wow your life sounds like a total mess right now. That's gotta suck.
    LMAO! Whatever man!
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  17. 02-01-2005, 01:43 PM #17
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    Originally posted by academic punk
    oh my god.

    I think I'm in lerv.
    For now...XO
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    Hmmmm.............

    I had that with my first serious girlfriend for a few years and we didn't speak for a long time. Then when I ran into her at our ten year reunion, we were the best of friends. I've since bumped into her at the grocery store and all is cool. Besides that, she became fat. lol. I'm a poet and didn't even know it.
    EAT US AND SMILE!!!!
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    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    For now...XO

    drop kick me jesus through the goal posts of life.

    it doesn't get sweeter than this.
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    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    I'm not looking to win at this point. I'm looking to break even!
    you and me both Honey! Lets buy an Island in the carribean...you, me, the kids and a jungle gym...for the kids, of course.
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    Re: Re: Re: Tainted Love

    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    LMAO! Whatever man!
    Laughter can't hide the pain and tears your trying to hide. What you need to do it make a film of yourself getting fucked by some guys you pick up at a bar. It's the only thing that will make you feel better.
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    Re: Re: Re: Re: Tainted Love

    Originally posted by Jesterstar
    Laughter can't hide the pain and tears your trying to hide. What you need to do it make a film of yourself getting fucked by some guys you pick up at a bar. It's the only thing that will make you feel better.
    Jester...other army guys yeah...have fun. Not the ladies...certainly not Fab. Cool?
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  23. 02-01-2005, 02:18 PM #23
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    Thanks Carmie... You're a great guy!
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    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    Thanks Carmie... You're a great guy!
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  25. 02-01-2005, 02:26 PM #25
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    No one will know what I am talking about but TODAY... I actually hurt a guy I ADORE... Didn't even try too... Just did. That's just ME
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    Originally posted by Carmine Raguzza.
    I think you know what I meant....


    I broke one heart...18 years old....stupid...the main reason I became the caring guy I am today. I think about her everyday...I made the mistake of putting myself first back then....If I only knew....the fact is, I did...I just didn't know what it meant.
    I know what you mean there. I lost the love of my life right after high school. I haven't been the same since.
    If I want any shit out of you, I'll squeeze your head.
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    Originally posted by alexpgrimes
    I know what you mean there. I lost the love of my life right after high school. I haven't been the same since.
    Kinda sucks Alex, doesn't it?
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    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    Nice girls do finish last... That is why I am NOT nice...
    Back in the '80s when those mini-trucks were so popular, Fabs asked her man, "Hey - why don't you get me a Toyota truck for Christmas?"

    Her girlfreind's new man said, "Because YOU ARE a Toyota truck."

    I currently now fuck both of 'em in the ass, and have tape to prove it.
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    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    No one will know what I am talking about but TODAY... I actually hurt a guy I ADORE... Didn't even try too... Just did. That's just ME


    I recommend: Bondo Auto-Body Filler, for patching up even the worst of bedpost notches, you little-big Minx, you..
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  30. 02-01-2005, 04:01 PM #30
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    I am a BMW!
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    Were you once a Toyota?
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    No... I was once a VW bug...
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    How does that BBW drive nowadays?
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  34. 02-01-2005, 04:19 PM #34
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    That info belongs to me and my mechanic...
    Last edited by Fabulous Shadow; 02-01-2005 at 04:24 PM.
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    Being nice just doesn't work.
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    Rikk - The new school of the Roth Army... this dude leads the pack... three words... The Sheep Pen... this dude opened alot of doors for people during this new era... he's the best of the new school.
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    Look who it is! The Uptight Badass...
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    Originally posted by Fabulous Shadow
    Than info belongs to my mechanic...
    Sometimes it's worth being checked by somebody else who may well see undetected malfunctions.

    Sorry, it sure is a bad, bad joke...
    posted by Ellyllions Men say, "I'll never understand women." That's a very lonely place to be if you're a woman because we don't understand half of what we do either.
    posted by ALinChainz Katy, Pipe down, pump off, and fly back to your cave you old bat.
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    Originally posted by Rikk
    Being nice just doesn't work.
    Chill.



    Have a pedal, I know you like to play..
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    Originally posted by Rikk
    Being nice just doesn't work.
    Who can teach me how to be a bitch?
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    Originally posted by Jérôme Frenchise
    Sometimes it's worth being checked by somebody else who may well see undetected malfunctions.

    Sorry, it sure is a bad, bad joke...
    Bébé vous pouvez conduire ma voiture !
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