Ok, I have a question!
As you all know I'm having a blast with this girl. Great Dates, Sex, Conversation, holding her in my arms, fun ect. Is 3 weeks to soon to tell her I only want to see her from now on? I think she feels the same, but any advice would be great. You guys have not let me down yet..so fire away!
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as long as shes into it, why not ?
I will say though, relationships that move too fast are not good. your doing everything now and could burn out the relationship early.
it depends on the individuals but I have found relationships that are very involving and very intense, intimate early on can show problems later on down the road.
but on that same note.... its hard to slow something like this down when its so great for both parties. been there, done that! so I say go with the flow and let it take you down that road. good or bad, if it lasts or doesnt last...... either way some excellent memories will be made!
when its that good and that intense there is no stopping that love train dude! again....... been there.
now party on !
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I agree with that... if you are happy with each other, why would you 2 seek elswhere (for now)?Originally posted by bru87tr
.... its hard to slow something like this down when its so great for both parties. been there, done that! so I say go with the flow and let it take you down that road. good or bad, if it lasts or doesnt last...... either way some excellent memories will be made!
when its that good and that intense there is no stopping that love train dude! again....... been there.
now party on !
Plus with all those deseases out there... "exclusivity" ain't a bad thing at all!
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I think you shouldn't talk about that at all. I know it's easy to tell when you aren't part of it, but if I were you I wouldn't make projections any further than mid-term, not only because, as you say, it's just been started for three weeks, but also because you never know, really.Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
Ok, I have a question!
Is 3 weeks to soon to tell her I only want to see her from now on?
Anyway, your problem is a damn fine one to have, you lucky one!
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Yeah, maybe I'll just wait a little bit and let stuff work it self out. Plus, maybe she will bring it up first, and that's always good.
the best nite of MY life was when i first saw Bob's pix...i lost my heart to him rite then and there!
love ya babe!
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Listen to an expert by blood!Originally posted by Jérôme Frenchise
... Anyway, your problem is a damn fine one to have, you lucky one!
The French man has spoken... :p
My bet is that it will come up by itself since you 2 are already on the same wavelenght on many other things...Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
Yeah, maybe I'll just wait a little bit and let stuff work it self out. Plus, maybe she will bring it up first, and that's always good.
Keep us posted!
Originally posted by blonddgirl777
Listen to an expert by blood!
The French man has spoken... :pI wish there were a SMACK smilie.
Now Jérôme, I noticed a difference in dating "policies" between the Americans and us, here in Quebec.Originally posted by Jérôme Frenchise
Here, when 2 people are dating each other; having sex and ESPECIALLY great intimacy, they want exclusivity right away. If a girl finds out that he's sleeping with other ones at the same time, she'll get pissed and move on...
I have a feeling that it's like that in France too (Am I wrong)?
Although a couple years ago, was in Paris and saw "Greg. le Millionaire" and I thought; are we the only ones who don't really care about those reallity shows where someone has to decide on who they love etc...
I guess we prefer to listen to our gut feelings, rather than thinking about all "pros and cons"?
Wich is much more romantic, when it comes from the heart...
I think you're right about women's need for exclusivity being the same here as in North America. Well, after my own experience, and other people's stories I've heard.Originally posted by blonddgirl777
Now Jérôme, I noticed a difference in dating "policies" between the Americans and us, here in Quebec.
Here, when 2 people are dating each other; having sex and ESPECIALLY great intimacy, they want exclusivity right away. If a girl finds out that he's sleeping with other ones at the same time, she'll get pissed and move on...
I have a feeling that it's like that in France too (Am I wrong)?
Although a couple years ago, was in Paris and saw "Greg. le Millionaire" and I thought; are we the only ones who don't really care about those reallity shows where someone has to decide on who they love etc...
I guess we prefer to listen to our gut feelings, rather than thinking about all "pros and cons"?
Wich is much more romantic, when it comes from the heart...
I remember leaving a girlfriend in 2003, in the north. She called me on my first day back to school and, as I was taking ice cubes out of my fridge to put into my drink, she got like wild because she thought I was not alone... I didn't really care about what she might think (I wasn't hooked to her like she was to me), but I insisted there was no other girl with me, which was true and she apparently wouldn't believe... Some other ones will ask me about other girls, some others won't, for whatever reasons, if not because they don't want to get hooked, just like I don't want to either. Why bother about anything when all you want is sin?... Anyway. Each time I've left a g/f up there in the north, they always were inquisitive. Well, I must admit they had reasons for that.
Yet, here in Haute-Savoie, girls do not care that much at all. I will come home with them (er... once at a time) around the middle of the night on a Friday or Saturday night, and they don't give a damn whether So and So still slips under my sheets or not; in fact, they more or less already know each others, and I wonder if there isn't a kind of dare between them. Like: "Hey, I've been there too, little one, so shut up."
Of course I'm not talking about chicks by the hundreds...
I couldn't really compare American and European ways, as there are differences inside the same country that I've noticed.
As for "Greg the brainless millionaire", BG, my dear, it's only "reality" TV. That is, as far from reality as TV programs can be.
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I totally understand one night stands and fuck buddies etc... but I think (I could be wrong) that our fellow Nate might be on to something a little more serious (or deep) here?Originally posted by Jérôme Frenchise
... Friday or Saturday night, and they don't give a damn whether So and So still slips under my sheets or not; in fact, they more or less already know each others, and I wonder if there isn't a kind of dare between them....
he's doomed...lol
I have a good feeling about her, we have great chemistry...like none I've ever felt before.Originally posted by blonddgirl777
I totally understand one night stands and fuck buddies etc... but I think (I could be wrong) that our fellow Nate might be on to something a little more serious (or deep) here?
You're right, BG, I'm off topic.Originally posted by blonddgirl777
I totally understand one night stands and fuck buddies etc... but I think (I could be wrong) that our fellow Nate might be on to something a little more serious (or deep) here?
Best of luck to you, Nate.
Haaaa yooouuuuu...!!!!Originally posted by bru87tr
he's doomed...lol
L.O.L.
Never heard that one...Originally posted by Jérôme Frenchise
... (la vie de patachon...)...
L.O.L.!
us men are so weak.... and blind!Originally posted by blonddgirl777
Haaaa yooouuuuu...!!!!
L.O.L.
Originally posted by bru87tr
us men are so weak.... and blind!
Blind?... not when it comes to eying a babe on the streets!
(My husband can spot a blond 10 miles in advance) L.O.L.
Ha! Ha! "Living in the fast lane" is not exactly an equivalent, though. "Une vie de patachon" means a dissolute life, filled with pretty loose party times.Originally posted by blonddgirl777
Never heard that one...
L.O.L.!
Bourvil sang a song about "la vie de pata-patachon". A great one.
C’est la vie de bohème, la vie sans façons,
La vie de garçon,
La vie de pata-patachon,
C’est la vie que l’on aime quand on a 20 ans,
Mais que nous menons d’puis longtemps.
Nous n’avons pas de galette mais qu'est-ce que ça fout.
On fait des dettes partout, partout.
Mais on chante quand même la nuit et le jour,
Vive la bohème et l’amour.
Cette mansarde divine où l’on a deux ateliers,
Nous sert aussi de cuisine et de chambre a coucher.
Nous n'y faisons le ménage, qu’une fois tous les 6 mois,
Le jour ou l’on déménage à la cloche de bois.
Chaque fois qu’une conquête vient m'accompagner,
Toute la nuit je m'embête seul dans l’escalier
Mais tu deviendras, j’espère plus connu que Picasso
Et beaucoup plus populaire que Victor Hugo.
C’est la vie de bohème, la vie sans façons,
La vie de garçon, la vie de pata-patachon,
C’est la vie que l’on aime quand on a 20 ans
Mais que nous menons d’puis longtemps.
Nous n’avons pas de galette mais quesque ca fout.
On fait des dettes partout, partout.
Et l'on chante quand même la nuit et le jour
Vive la bohème et l’amour.
AhAhAhAhAh ! ! ! ! Quelle vie alors !
C’est la vie de bohème !
On r’met ca c’est trop joli
Allons-y !
Allez chef !
1,2...
C’est la vie de bohème, la vie sans façons,
La vie de garçon, la vie de pata-patachon,
C’est la vie que l’on aime quand on a 20 ans
Mais que nous menons d’puis longtemps (...)
It's got a bit old (a duet from the late 50s with G. Guetary...), but the way Bourvil pronounces the word "patachon" makes the song worth it just by itself.
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Originally posted by blonddgirl777
Blind?... not when it comes to eying a babe on the streets!
(My husband can spot a blond 10 miles in advance) L.O.L.
blind to love, not to spotting a hot chick!!! you try walking around with a dick and see what its like.
Don't worry. It'll pass after awhile. lolOriginally posted by NATEDOG001976
I have a good feeling about her, we have great chemistry...like none I've ever felt before.
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I'm throwing all that crap out the window about screwing on the first date. This was my first time I've ever had sex this quick with a girl, we click great. The stars were shining down on us that night, same birthday? when the fuck does that happen? I never believed in fate in the past, I'm starting to now. I've always said quality is better than quanity. Damm I feel good, I'm gonna get tanked tonight...she comes home on Sunday (can't wait!)
Wow, She called me from Mazatlan, Mexico last night! I'm flattered and blown away!
Great that she called you. Most of my friends are happy in their relationships and they have been for along time together so I don't believe the so called ' love relationship pessimists' everybody is different but one thing I will say is that I will not go out with a French Man. The french have invented the word ' affair '. I would not trust a french man in a million years maybe cos I am Brit I keep the French as friends not lovers or patners.I had a french boyfriend and he was an arrogant asshole. I dumped him he was so shocked when I dumped him he told me that no one showed him the door before. I told him their is always a first time honey, you can learn from the experience.
It's one thing if all the parties involved know what's going on they agree to it, another doing it behind someones back. I definitely believe in the phrase what goes around comes around.Sopranos Style.
I don't know how many guys I have met who where screwing around and when it finally happened that they fell in love and they find out that their special chick was doing the same to them, it was a big shock to their emotional self and ego some of them did not recover and become pessimistic loosers.
Enjoy the ride Nat.
m
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I have to disagree with you here. Not that I care about my fellow countrymen at all, but...Originally posted by Millermoos
one thing I will say is that I will not go out with a French Man. The french have invented the word ' affair '. I would not trust a french man in a million years maybe cos I am Brit I keep the French as friends not lovers or patners.I had a french boyfriend and he was an arrogant asshole.
Just because you once had a b/f who happened to be French doesn't mean you can state all his fellow countrymen are the same.
I had a Scottish g/f 8 years ago, but I never concluded that all Scotch girls were great.
You, a great traveller... How can you say such things? :p
Too bad...Originally posted by Millermoos
... I am Brit I keep the French as friends not lovers or patners...
Your lost!
This is LOVE Nate, I tell ya... LOOOOOVE!!!Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
Wow, She called me from Mazatlan, Mexico last night! I'm flattered and blown away!
This is soooo cute!Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
... The stars were shining down on us that night, same birthday? when the fuck does that happen? I never believed in fate in the past, I'm starting to now....
I'm totally diggin' this... :p
Wow, she came over after she got back from her trip and we hung out. All I can is wow, wow, and holy shit wow!Originally posted by blonddgirl777
This is soooo cute!
I'm totally diggin' this... :p
I was just pulling your leg Jerome, I just wanted to see your reply!!! I am bit naughty.
M.
Are you teasing the French man?Originally posted by Millermoos
I was just pulling your leg Jerome, I just wanted to see your reply!!! I am bit naughty.
M.
You know what "they" are capable of... L.O.L. :p
Same as living "la vida loca" ?Originally posted by Jérôme Frenchise
living in the fast line (la vie de patachon...).
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or La Dolce VIta!
Are you teasing the French man?
A Brit teasing a French man, I wonder what will happen....
I am no Dita Von Teese but I love the Art of Tease.....
By the way I call the art of burlesque a crafty way of making money instead of saying stripping.
Millermoos
Agreed 100%!Originally posted by Millermoos
... I call the art of burlesque a crafty way of making money instead of saying stripping.
Millermoos
Same for Fetish Mistress...
Strippers with "an edge"
Originally posted by Millermoos
I was just pulling your leg Jerome, I just wanted to see your reply!!! I am bit naughty.
M.
Just kidding.
Er... No, that's true! :p
A Master of Art of Tease. But, you know, the only thing that bugs me in criticizing the French is... I'm one! So if you generalize I automatically wind up in the same basket.Originally posted by Millermoos
A Brit teasing a French man, I wonder what will happen....
I am no Dita Von Teese but I love the Art of Tease.....
Millermoos
By the way...
If I hadn't been in Britain many times, I would believe that all English young ladies all have a large turned-up nose and... big feet!
Of course, when I first set foot in England, the first thing I did was checking out girls's noses and feet.
In fact, that's the only reason why French guys are said to be arrogant: whenever they come to GB, they keep looking at girls's noses and feet, so that they think the guys are looking at them up and down...
Yes, don't tease a French man or you'll end up chewing raw snails and frogs for every meal in dark and wet catacombs.Originally posted by blonddgirl777
Are you teasing the French man?
You know what "they" are capable of... L.O.L. :p
Don't tease the French man, tabarnac', by Teutates! Cock-a-doodle-dooooooo!
Maybe. Unfortunately, I've lent my Spanish-French dictionary so I can't check it out.Originally posted by bastardog
Same as living "la vida loca" ?
But the life of a "patachon" must be the last in its kind in the world, as the French are the coarsest people on earth.
En Québecois;Originally posted by Jérôme Frenchise
life of a "patachon"...
"Fourer à gauche pis à droite"... :eek:
I admire the phrases you use in Quebec. And Joual seems to be a pure marvel. There's something here to be proud of, among others.Originally posted by blonddgirl777
En Québecois;
"Fourer à gauche pis à droite"... :eek:
But "la vie de patachon" is more about a life that defies conventions in general.
"Fourer à gauche pis à droite" sounds great, very direct as usual in Quebec. But it's only about sex life. Then you'd say "papillonner" here, which is very formal, or "fourrailler à droite, à gauche" which looks a lot like what you say in Quebec.
I've just found Bourvil's song "C'est la vie de Boheme". I could upload it and post it here. It's got old, but it's mostly about Bourvil's voice and way of singing.
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