Another gay goodbye thread

[Anonymous]

Now, the different vibes I was talking about is we delve into far more touchy subjects & make complete asses of ourselves while doing so.

Also, hardly any topic there is serious.

We were discussing trannies in Bart Walsh's welcome thread, fer fuck's sake.

The different vibe is one of pure silliness.

And one day we might turn that into a Richard Simmons site, who knows?

Cheers!

[Seshmeister]

Jeezus, don't be so sore.

Well it's a bit tiresome with the constant pimping of that site here, especially when the whole point of it was because of issues with the previous management that I have reversed.

I've been PMing with WARF tonight about, I hope he puts all those in your mod forum so most of the people there can read it.

I think you are all being silly.

Maybe DonnieP or whoever can take over here so I don't need to do it?

[Anonymous]

Well it's a bit tiresome with the constant pimping of that site here, especially when the whole point of it was because of issues with the previous management that I have reversed.

I've been PMing with WARF tonight about, I hope he puts all those in your mod forum so most of the people there can read it.

I think you are all being silly.

Maybe DonnieP or whoever can take over here so I don't need to do it?

Well, that's different & yes, I can see how it can be in bad taste.

I apologize for that & let me assure you I didn't do it purposefully.

Now that you pointed it out, I realize I was being rude, & ignorant about it.

I'll stop that.

Cheers!

[Seshmeister]

Hey you know I like you.

But it's like going to a party, eating the snacks and spending all your time saying to everyone let's leave and go to my party around the corner. Then people go to the party and find there is no one there because they are here. Even more nuts the reason they are giving for going to the party is that there won't be people like them there starting fights...

WARF said today that Von and I ran an alternative site to here for some time around 2005-2009 I think and that's true but we never ever came here touting for business because that is fucking lame. There is barely enough traffic at this point to justify one site.

I view this as a trustee thing, as did Sarge I think.

If people want WARF or DonnieP or whoever to run this I will very very happily pass it over to them and they can have the happy lovely forum of nice.

They can sit there and try and work out if a picture of some guy they don't know with their face blacked out in a photoshop should mean that Flappo should be banned or not.

[Anonymous]

Yep. I got it.

Look, when I was a wee laddie, I used to go to my neighbour's house because she had a turntable & listen to records.

It never crossed their minds to tell me "Look kid, it's 1 am, get the fuck out of here."

No, they dropped subtle hints, like walking around in pajamas. So fuckin' what? I walked around in pajamas at MY place at all hours of the day.

It took me awhile to finally realize it & to THIS DAY I'm embarrassed. They probably don't even remember it, but I sure do.

What I mean by this is, I may be a very brilliant guy, but sometimes - most of the times - I'm just thick & don't realize I'm doing something wrong. And I wish people would tell me more often.

I certainly don't do it on purpose.

Cheers!

[DONNIEP]

If people want WARF or DonnieP or whoever to run this I will very very happily pass it over to them and they can have the happy lovely forum of nice.

I think you're doing a great job, Sesh. It ain't easy, that's for sure.

[Seshmeister]

I think there is a phony thing going on here.

I came along at a very inconvenient time for everyone.

Donnie and Warham have always wanted to have a website, they have tried various ones in the past but now it's much cheaper. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that - cool. There were issues here that had built up and that site was set up. Sarge passed this over to me and the reasons for the other site I would argue disappeared at that point.

It's awkward.

Part of the problem here too is that without the baddie of Hagar or Van Hagar to rail against which kept this site going for so many years people turn on each other or just don't post at all. Combine that with a uniquely uncommunicative band and of course there are problems in maintaining an interesting site.

For that to somehow be blamed on ex moderators or even those that argue with them is ludicrous.

What is irritating me though is trying to generate a reason for the other site by pushing against this one - trying to make this the Van Hagar site. Anyone that has any inkling at all about any of the people 'running' the Roth Army will know that is ludicrous. Also it's difficult to completely ascertain with the lack of posts and everyone there being a moderator but as far as I can understand there are fewer rules here and less moderation.

Anyhoo I am 100% genuine in this, I am very happy to step down if we can work out a way to join the sites and stop all this nonsense.

[Seshmeister]

Also I should state for the record that I really fucking tried to get the DDLR site and this one merged back in the day.

I got Von and Sarge onboard with that but Sarge had to go patch up people in Iraq and it fell through because there wasn't enough time to sort it out.

[Anonymous]

if we can work out a way to join the sites and stop all this nonsense.

Again, I don't speak for anyone, but...

Guys?

I may be interested in this, if you are.

Cheers!

[Seshmeister]

I think you're doing a great job, Sesh.

I don't.

[Angel]

Let me clear the record here. Too much bs and speculation.

My reasons for leaving are varied. #1 is that there's nothing going on in VH land. I no longer have angst about seeing Dave and Eddie together again. I saw them, got a great album. I have closure.

2. It's the same old thing. Nothing going on in VH land so many resort to personal attacks. I've gotten too old for this shit.

3. All negative shit. I have enough crap in my life. I want to go where I can get away from the BS, not have more added. I don't like seeing my name in a thread and being terrified that certain users have managed to get ahold of pictures of my family members. There's been a few disgusting suicide pictures meant for me...and I cannot risk the next one won't have mine or my brother's face shopped into it.

I'm tired of holding my breath waiting for that day.

Plus, SI hit the nail on the head. Negative shit going on in my life makes this an unhealthy place to be. Women do need a thick skin around here...and mine's just a little too thin right now.

And WARF and Donnie....stop thinking everyone here is stupid. We can see what's going on over there, right down to DB congratulating Wahlberg on a job well done...and just how many damn threads must you have about me...albeit cleverly worded, we all know who you mean when you refer to the Canadian Lesbian.

Plain and simple...I don't need the crap and if I can help lessen Sesh's headaches by leaving...so be it.

I'll see you all when the next album comes out, or when Dave dies...whichever comes first.

Oh, and WARF...I would love nothing more than to be at my brother's side...1000 miles away. So, if you want to pay my way and cover my expenses, please feel free...

[Anonymous]

I don't.

You are, though.

And I don't lie unless I'm planning something funny.

Well, this isn't funny.

Cheers!

[Seshmeister]

The reason I'm posting like I am here in this thread is that it has really affected me.

Angel has been around forever and how fucking ballsy do you need to be to put up video of yourself here?

She posts her brother is really unwell because she has friends here and it's mocked by some of the people that run the 'nice' site,

If I can't run the site in a way that allows Angel to post here then I don't want to do this any more.

[Seshmeister]

The two choices I'm being given are to go VH Links or go unmoderated and I don't want anything to do with either of those.

[Anonymous]

Whatever it is that is decided, you will stay at the head of this place, with Von at your side.

Talks are being talked.

But usurping the throne is not MY intention, at least. I don't think it's the intention of anyone.

Even if it comes to nothing, rest assured things will change & I'll smack the head of ANYONE that comes here to start shit.

Cheers!