Ladies: Has anyone ever dated a narcissist?

[LadyTudor2711]

Hello there Ladies:

Has anyone ever dated a male narcissist?

Looking for ideas for my new column.

I would welcome all your stories and experiences with narcissistic personality disorders.

Feel free to IM/e-mail me if you wish to keep it between us.

Best,

LT

[academic punk]

A completely irrelevant question.

Let's instead talk about ME...

[superdave]

how bout the fact that Thorman and 3 Lock Rock are exchanging bodily fluids? both of them are in love with each other and themselves--does that count???

[LadyTudor2711]

Hey,

All right, let's talk about you for or a while.. What do you think about my question?




LT

Originally posted by academic punk
A completely irrelevant question.

Let's instead talk about ME...

[academic punk]

I'd be interested in hearing more about this column and about the responses....

What else? mmmmmm....One persons narcissist is another persons motivated, interesting individual.

For me (as a man), it's weird. If you come across as humble or shy these days, you're not providing the bigger, better deal that women want from men in the courting arena. (and vice versa. but then again, all you have to do is be available and a guy is interested). You DO have to seel yourself, and it's a constant review. And the ultimate aphrodisiac IS money and power, right? So if you're projecting those things (in this case, power and dominance), I GUARANTEE some woman will be flinging herself in no time.

Now, if you've been with the guy for a while, and you can see all the masks are off, and he IS a self-important prick, well....mmmm....I guess ultimately it's a matter of taste. If it's somehting that's unabidable, then end the relationship, and that's that. And maybe that will be ultimately beneficial for him and teach him to care about someone other than himself for a change. Or maybe even a simple warning, and see if he changes (Like Saddam in South Park, yo) his ways, and improves. But if you find something appealing about the guy despite - or BECAUSE - of that, then...you know...more power to ya.

I've known plenty of folks who like to get their others expensive gifts and whatnot, just so they can say, "see that? I BOUGHT that." In other words, the gift was hardly for the recipient. It was so the provider could gloat about the size of his wallet. But on the plus side, maybe you now have a new diamond-encrusted pair of leather pants, so everybody wins anyway.

You might want to post the question on CL too...I think you'll find more women thereabouts who will be excited to answer such a question. And maybe PM some of the Army's women directly with the question couldn't hurt...

[Hardrock69]

Have ya ever seen the original version of the film Bedazzled?

Short order cook (Dudley Moore) hooks up with Satan, and in the original version, Satan had a club called The Inferno, where he had all 7 of the Deadly Sins working for him (including Raquel Welch as lust **DROOOOL** :eek:

Anyway, this guy named Vanity walked around with this mirror strapped to his chest so he could admire himself 24/7.

Ooops...gotta go....SEVERE thunderstorm just blew up around my house....gotta powere down....

**KEPTIN!!! I DINNA THINK SHE KIN TAKE MUCH MORRR O' THIS!!!!***

[Stillwell]

Re: Ladies: Has anyone ever dated a narcissist?

Originally posted by LadyTudor2711
Ladies: Has anyone ever dated a narcissist?

I don't believe anyone from this site has dated me.

[academic punk]

Originally posted by Hardrock69


Ooops...gotta go....SEVERE thunderstorm just blew up around my house....gotta powere down....

Typical narcissist.

Cares more about his house and home than finishing his response.

[MAX]

What's wrong with being a bit narcissistic?

[academic punk]

Originally posted by MAX
What's wrong with being a bit narcissistic?

A "bit"???!? YOU???!?

Holy shit, fuckin' Donald Trump's self-importance is like a mosquito fart in the midst of a typhoon compared to yours!!!!!

[LadyTudor2711]

Originally posted by MAX
What's wrong with being a bit narcissistic?

Nothing is wrong with it, I am just asking for feedback..

Best,
LT

[Chester]

Originally posted by academic punk
A "bit"???!? YOU???!?

Holy shit, fuckin' Donald Trump's self-importance is like a mosquito fart in the midst of a typhoon compared to yours!!!!!

A/P -

I've warned you. Don't speak to my MAX like that. I won't ask again.

[academic punk]

Originally posted by Chester
A/P -

I've warned you. Don't speak to my MAX like that. I won't ask again.

Oh, fuck you and MAX both.

What are you going to do about it, huh? You're a fucking GOAT, for God's sake.

[LadyTudor2711]

Originally posted by Hardrock69
Have ya ever seen the original version of the film Bedazzled?

Short order cook (Dudley Moore) hooks up with Satan, and in the original version, Satan had a club called The Inferno, where he had all 7 of the Deadly Sins working for him (including Raquel Welch as lust **DROOOOL** :eek:

Anyway, this guy named Vanity walked around with this mirror strapped to his chest so he could admire himself 24/7.

Ooops...gotta go....SEVERE thunderstorm just blew up around my house....gotta powere down....

**KEPTIN!!! I DINNA THINK SHE KIN TAKE MUCH MORRR O' THIS!!!!***

Yes, and I just adored Dudley Moore and Eleanor Bron. It was a great Brit flick. The remake. I still like Liz Hurley, she is a real beauty.

Best,
LT

[LadyTudor2711]

Good evening Ladies,

I would like your input on this, please ..

Best,

LT