7 Reasons Men Cheat

[Mezro]

Originally posted by Little_Skittles
your so funny mez

Thank you Daisy May.

Mezro...don't forget to feed the hogs and clean the outhouse...

[Little_Skittles]

mighty welcome.

[Panamark]

G'day MEZ MAN !

I understand where you are coming from. But it is possible to meet
"the one". When/if you do, you will know. Sadly it seems for a lot of
people, this never happens.

[ashstralia]

have i cheated?

nah....
but i'd sure like to hear what
your definition of 'is' is.

[Northern Girl]

Originally posted by Panamark
Ive never cheated. If I was in that frame of mind, the relationship
was over anyway. So I would part ways, then cool. No damage done.

There you go. If you're feeling the need to wander, then do the honorable thing and break it off. I would rather have a man tell me "I can't stand you anymore, I'm done," than to lie to me and sneak around behind my back. Sure it will sting for awhile, but nothing worse than betrayal in my book. I've been there. It causes all kinds of questions and doubts in yourself. Then someone else has control of your feelings, and that's fucked up. Honesty is the way to go.

[Carmine]

Originally posted by Northern Girl
There you go. If you're feeling the need to wander, then do the honorable thing and break it off. I would rather have a man tell me "I can't stand you anymore, I'm done," than to lie to me and sneak around behind my back. Sure it will sting for awhile, but nothing worse than betrayal in my book. I've been there. It causes all kinds of questions and doubts in yourself. Then someone else has control of your feelings, and that's fucked up. Honesty is the way to go.

Don't ever question yourself...question the other persons. It is NEVER your fault!
Yes. there can be underlying cicumstances, but the decision falls on your signifigant other and the choice they have made. Smile...laugh...then go bang their best friend!:D

[Northern Girl]

Originally posted by Ally_Kat
But, just askin' Mez, what happens when you've grown old?

Having a spouse and kids doesn't guarantee you won't be alone in the end. We're all alone in the end. I'd rather be alone and have no regrets.

What's the divorce rate now days - 60%? Out of the other 40%, how many are truly happy and fulfilled with their life? I would guess less than 10%. And good for them, but that leaves a whole lot of people living with regrets.

[SweetSecrets]

Originally posted by Panamark

I am a sexually active person, am proud of my prowess and
experience, (never had any complaints.)

Ha ha! I'm proud of you too baby.....:p . You are an angel.

[Little_Skittles]

Originally posted by Northern Girl
Having a spouse and kids doesn't guarantee you won't be alone in the end. We're all alone in the end. I'd rather be alone and have no regrets.

What's the divorce rate now days - 60%? Out of the other 40%, how many are truly happy and fulfilled with their life? I would guess less than 10%. And good for them, but that leaves a whole lot of people living with regrets.

People rush in too things way to fast these days that's why. Alot of things contribute to divorce. Espcially having kids right after you get married get time to know each other as a married couple and establish a relationship dang!

[Ally_Kat]

Originally posted by Little_Skittles
People rush in too things way to fast these days that's why. Alot of things contribute to divorce. Espcially having kids right after you get married get time to know each other as a married couple and establish a relationship dang!

But not always. My parents had me right after they got married (married Oct '82, conceived March '83) and they are going strong 22 years now. Both sets of grandparents got married and had kids right away. Aunts, Uncles, and cousins all followed the suit, too.

I think what might help is to establish a relationship BEFORE you decide to get married and vow to live with this person for the rest of your life, not after. After should be just adjusting to married life and working as a team.

[Panamark]

Originally posted by SweetSecrets
Ha ha! I'm proud of you too baby.....:p . You are an angel.

You bring out the best !

My Love, My Life.

[LoungeMachine]

" Can't call it cheatin'....cuz she reminds me of you..." - Toad The Wet Sprocket

[Panamark]

Originally posted by Northern Girl
There you go. If you're feeling the need to wander, then do the honorable thing and break it off. I would rather have a man tell me "I can't stand you anymore, I'm done," than to lie to me and sneak around behind my back. Sure it will sting for awhile, but nothing worse than betrayal in my book. I've been there. It causes all kinds of questions and doubts in yourself. Then someone else has control of your feelings, and that's fucked up. Honesty is the way to go.

Exactly.