Nate,
I never dated once in my life...
My first boyfriend was a childhood friend and the second one, I ended up marrying only 3 months after knowing. So my advice on dating is worth what it is...
But I know a LOT of people (not necessarely all friends) and from what I hear, dating is a lot like looking for a job...
You have to be "on your best".
The timing was not right. Loosing a job is stressfull and all so maybe you should have changed your mind that night?
Girls don't want to see a guy that's not 100% "there" and they want all the attention on them. If she's a hot chick, she is used to that attention and she likes to beleive that her presence only can cheer up a guy...
If she sensed that you where not totally into her (at that time), you probably won't get a second chance...?
Next time you date, I suggest that you leave all the problems at home OR you just date when the time is right...
Just like for job interviews!
I never dated once in my life...
My first boyfriend was a childhood friend and the second one, I ended up marrying only 3 months after knowing. So my advice on dating is worth what it is...
But I know a LOT of people (not necessarely all friends) and from what I hear, dating is a lot like looking for a job...
You have to be "on your best".
The timing was not right. Loosing a job is stressfull and all so maybe you should have changed your mind that night?
Girls don't want to see a guy that's not 100% "there" and they want all the attention on them. If she's a hot chick, she is used to that attention and she likes to beleive that her presence only can cheer up a guy...
If she sensed that you where not totally into her (at that time), you probably won't get a second chance...?
Next time you date, I suggest that you leave all the problems at home OR you just date when the time is right...
Just like for job interviews!
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