Is 18 too young to do porn?

[binnie]

I grew up under hard ass parenting. You knew your were loved but if you were just being a crying brat you got a boot in your ass. If you complained nobody cared and you might get a boot in your ass for that too. If you needed love it was always there.

You had good parenting, therefore you were mature enough to make smart decisions.

If your parents had been less effective or attentive, you probably wouldn't be the person you are today. And it is people who come from those kind of backgrounds who end up making bad decisions around the age of 18, when they suddenly have a lot of freedom and no real sense of how to handle it.

To my eyes, 18 is a little young to be deemed a full adult. I'd say 21 is closer the mark, especially for guys.

[Nitro Express]

You had good parenting, therefore you were mature enough to make smart decisions.

If your parents had been less effective or attentive, you probably wouldn't be the person you are today. And it is people who come from those kind of backgrounds who end up making bad decisions around the age of 18, when they suddenly have a lot of freedom and no real sense of how to handle it.

To my eyes, 18 is a little young to be deemed a full adult. I'd say 21 is closer the mark, especially for guys.

I had a friend who grew up on a hippie commune. The same one Picabo Street came out of. His resolve was to be opposite of what his parents were. He was more mature than I was and he grew up in a less than opportune situation. The thing is with all their faults his parents loved him. I will never forget driving to a Grateful Dead concert in his dad's old VW bus. His dad thought we needed to experience it. It was cool. I saw all the faults but just viewed it as a historical moment. LOL! The concert was in Eugene, Oregon and hippies had stolen all of Albertsons grocery carts to haul their shit to the venue in and there was a constant green cloud of smoke rising from the stadium.

I can still smell that bus and hear that flat four making all it's wonderful weird noises.

[binnie]

I had a friend who grew up on a hippie commune. The same one Picabo Street came out of. His resolve was to be opposite of what his parents were. He was more mature than I was and he grew up in a less than opportune situation. The thing is with all their faults his parents loved them. I will never forget driving to a Grateful Dead concert in his dad's old VW bus. His dad thought we needed to experience it. It was cool.

Exactly - he had parents who loved him, even if their methods were unorthodox he still had a stable family structure.

[envy_me]

I have great parents. They'll do anything for me. Whenever I need something they are always there.

But there are people who didn't have parents like you and I. Who maybe are destructive or don't know any better.

I don't know. It's a very complex subject.


I don't know. I am left. I think we should take care of each other. All for one, one for all :-) Solidarity.

[Nitro Express]

Exactly - he had parents who loved him, even if their methods were unorthodox he still had a stable family structure.

It was a good commune. Some were notorious for child and women abuse. Some good kids came out of there actually. Some of the men there were river guides in the summer on the Salmon river and that is how I got my job as a river guide. They were river guides in the summer and groomed the ski trails in the winter. Actually not a bad bum life. The cost of living now would make that impossible today.

[ELVIS]

There have been lives saved because of the group I'm talking about.

I'm sure it's as pure as the driven snow...

[Nitro Express]

I have great parents. They'll do anything for me. Whenever I need something they are always there.

But there are people who didn't have parents like you and I. Who maybe are destructive or don't know any better.

I don't know. It's a very complex subject.


I don't know. I am left. I think we should take care of each other. All for one, one for all :-) Solidarity.

That's why the communists wanted to tear families apart so institutions would raise the children. They constantly try it but families are hard things to break actually. Nothing wrong with helping each other but what you have to be careful of is someone centralizing the power of that and using the excuse of doing good to cover a controlling agenda. That's what is creeping in at the moment. They actually love fucked up societies so they can come in and offer the fix which means treating everyone like a two year old and taking all the power. Look at Bloomberg in New York City as an example. Fuck that guy.

[Nitro Express]

I don't know. It's a very complex subject.

Yes it is and when a committee tries to fix it, they just fuck it up more.

[Nitro Express]

Damn, you sound so cold.

It's the truth. Life is tough. That's why I call this planet upper hell. It might have it's good times but they never last and someone is always in your way. Money just creates new problems and more enemies. Enjoy!



I've been here long enough and seen enough of this rock to know I came here for the entertainment value. Utopias are nice dreams but the quest only fucks things up more. Technology only multiplies the fuck ups and makes them bigger. It's never going to be fixed. Just laugh it off and ask yourself what did you do in a previous life to deserve this shit? When its bad it really bad and when it's good, it's not that great.

[binnie]

You know reading through all of this shit makes me wish I had a not too bright 18 year old willing to let me shoot my wad on her face whilst she said 'Thank You'........


***JOKE****

[Nitro Express]

You know reading through all of this shit makes me wish I had a not too bright 18 year old willing to let me shoot my wad on her face whilst she said 'Thank You'........


***JOKE****

If you are going to be wreakless at age 18 do a damn good job of it. I mean put the pedal to the metal and the balls to the wall. Have a good time and be sure to die young doing it because if you live long enough you will only regret your poor decisions.

Jim Morrison. We salute you!

[Nickdfresh]

I grew up under hard ass parenting.
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And relatives everywhere who've done everything...

[Nitro Express]

So how do you explain people who rise above and far exceed expectations when they come from highly dysfuntional homes? I understand and agree to an extent the 18/21 yr. old point you made.....but at what age does a person accept responsibility and stop blaming mommy and daddy and the environment they grew up in for all the horrible decisions they make?

This reminds me of the debate from the movie Trading Places. Is it the environment or is it the person? From my personal observation the ones who seem to make it out of bad home situations are what you would call a naturally positive person and they have natural motivation. Some people just have those traits. David Lee Roth has that. Heck. I hate to say it but Sammy Hagar has a bit of it. That guy came out of a pretty fucked up home situation and nobody gave him a silver spoon. I don't think Dave really got much of a silver spoon. It sounds like his dad made him earn his keep.

[BITEYOASS]

Some have no choice because a lot of sex slaves are used in porn. Some came to Hollywood to be a star but they just became a different kind of star. Some are in it for the money. Some are fucked up on drugs and porn is access to those. Nasty stuff.



Go see baby now...

Shelly Lubben?!?!? From what I've seen, she's a total fraud. Here are some videos that Michael Whiteacre made about her and the Pink-Cross movement that she started:

Episode 1

[BITEYOASS]

Episode 2