What up with this?

[Warham]

Originally posted by Rikk
I still respect women. I don't like breaking hearts or being an asshole. It just happens! Some women really think guys intend on doing that. They think guys sit around saying: "The minute we're finished tonight, I'll never call her again and she'll feel hurt! HA HA HA!!!" But it just happens. When you want to get into a chick's pants, there are few things other than that that you think about. Deep down, you know you probably won't care about talking to her after this. But you somehow forget that, and she's the coolest thing in the world at that moment. You usually know BEFORE the sex if you're interested in a chick beyond the sex. In fact, if you're interested in a chick beyond the sex, you actually don't hold the sex to as high a standard. My most exciting lays were not with chicks I was in love with.

But one thing is true...it doesn't matter how much you like a chick or dig a chick or can't wait to get wid...if the legs open and you smell sour milk, that's gonna a put a damper on everything...even if you've committed. I don't care how good she is after that.

But if it smells or tastes like that jolly rancher that Cat mentioned, it could be a match made in heaven.

:D

[Rikk]

Originally posted by Warham
But if it smells or tastes like that jolly rancher that Cat mentioned, it could be a match made in heaven.

:D

Yes. But that's also not the litmus test!:D Some of the sweetest tasting vag's are also...I don't know...boring. It's a combination of everything!:D

Mind you, I love a good jolly rancher!:p

[Cathedral]

Originally posted by Rikk
I still respect women. I don't like breaking hearts or being an asshole. It just happens! Some women really think guys intend on doing that. They think guys sit around saying: "The minute we're finished tonight, I'll never call her again and she'll feel hurt! HA HA HA!!!" But it just happens. When you want to get into a chick's pants, there are few things other than that that you think about. Deep down, you know you probably won't care about talking to her after this. But you somehow forget that, and she's the coolest thing in the world at that moment. You usually know BEFORE the sex if you're interested in a chick beyond the sex. In fact, if you're interested in a chick beyond the sex, you actually don't hold the sex to as high a standard. My most exciting lays were not with chicks I was in love with.

But one thing is true...it doesn't matter how much you like a chick or dig a chick or can't wait to get wid...if the legs open and you smell sour milk, that's gonna a put a damper on everything...even if you've committed. I don't care how good she is after that.

I can get in line with that, but in my case i play hard to get for the first couple of weeks. I gotta get to know a lady first, and if i don't like her after that i try to avoid opening that can of worms all together.
I have made some penis driven decisions before and found myself with a fruitcake that was real hard to get rid of.

But still, i have no problem telling her she needs a bath if sour anything is in the air, lol.
I feel bad for guys who have felt the need to go forward into the sewer.
But i respect their sense of fair play and leaving her with the whole dignity thing in the end.
You are a better man than I, Rikk.

[Ally_Kat]

Originally posted by Cathedral
Agreed, but in my case she was a bitter little snake looking to get even with the entire male race, lol.

Do I need to go kick some asses? I hate chicks (and guys for that matter) like that. Why hate on someone who did nothing to you?

[Ally_Kat]

Originally posted by Rikk
It just happens! Some women really think guys intend on doing that. They think guys sit around saying: "The minute we're finished tonight, I'll never call her again and she'll feel hurt! HA HA HA!!!"

Maybe along a diff track, but there are those guys who like to do the ol' emotional abuse thing. They keep you around and then make you feel like shit.

I had the wonderful honor of knowing such a winner.

And followed him up with someone who seemed like a nice guy at first...but then BAM! Pulled out the emotional abuse thing.

I'm just glad I turned out alright afterwards. Took awhile.

[Cathedral]

Originally posted by Ally_Kat
Do I need to go kick some asses? I hate chicks (and guys for that matter) like that. Why hate on someone who did nothing to you?

I have no idea, i am a sweetheart that cannot be matched in my town.
Yet i have been taken advantage of so much it stopped hurting a long time ago.
I just tried not to end up doing the same thing so i found a good girl and married her, but that's all a bunch of shit now too, but for completely different reasons.
I didn't even love my wife when we got married, but we got along great and are still great friends and i love her to death, we're just not lovers at this point.

I'm all about solitude these days. I have no energy to play the dating game anymore, no heart for it.....But i sure do have some fine memories to sustain me for now, for now that'll work.

[Ally_Kat]

Originally posted by Cathedral
I didn't even love my wife when we got married

See that was my biggest fear for a long time after my wonderful experiences. Now I'm just scared of losing my guy and being without him.

[Cathedral]

Originally posted by Ally_Kat
Maybe along a diff track, but there are those guys who like to do the ol' emotional abuse thing. They keep you around and then make you feel like shit.

I had the wonderful honor of knowing such a winner.

And followed him up with someone who seemed like a nice guy at first...but then BAM! Pulled out the emotional abuse thing.

I'm just glad I turned out alright afterwards. Took awhile.

And i don't get that. whatever happened to just letting people do their own thing and respect each others space?
I'm old school, that whole controlling thing is too much work to sustain a happy relationship.
It's a form of self loathing that creates people like that.
If a woman leaves me to go out one day and doesn't come back, i'll be hurt, but happier knowing she didn't stay around and play act that she was where she wanted to be.
One chick did that just so she could drive my Trans Am and look all sporty to other guys, then she brought it back one day with a busted suspension, it had gone flying somewhere and that was the straw that broke my back....It was time to move on.

[Cathedral]

Originally posted by Ally_Kat
See that was my biggest fear for a long time after my wonderful experiences. Now I'm just scared of losing my guy and being without him.

I guess that seems a bit harsh, i guess we did kind of love each other, we just weren't deeply in-love.
We had great sex and both wanted another child, so we got married and made a little girl, lol.

I just never figured on raising her alone as well, life is funny with its twists and turns.

[Ally_Kat]

Originally posted by Cathedral

One chick did that just so she could drive my Trans Am and look all sporty to other guys

Screw that. I would have made you drive me around in your sexy Trans Am. Me lookin' all pretty in a cool car with a chauffeur! And screw the guys. I'd do it to show off to the other girls.

:D

[Rikk]

Originally posted by Ally_Kat
Maybe along a diff track, but there are those guys who like to do the ol' emotional abuse thing. They keep you around and then make you feel like shit.

I had the wonderful honor of knowing such a winner.

And followed him up with someone who seemed like a nice guy at first...but then BAM! Pulled out the emotional abuse thing.

I'm just glad I turned out alright afterwards. Took awhile.

Yeah, some people think the key to a relationship is some form of control over the other person. And with that comes self-loathing. And with that comes emotional abuse.

I was in a very consuming relationship a few years back...way too consuming. When it was all over, it was almost like heroin withdrawal (not that I've ever used heroin), but I knew this was the way it had to be. It took me years to get that relationship out of my system, and I guess I became a bit more of a player (or at least an enemy of calling women back) after that ended. In fact, I've had nothing that has lasted too long since this situation. I guess I can tell that my days of "playing" are slowing down and I'm almost ready for a smart, loving two-way situation (with clean cunnilingus).:D

[Fabulous Shadow]

Originally posted by Rikk
Does this ever fucking end?? Do you want to go at this all night?

Who said it wasn't someone from this site that told me? Nobody said that. The thing people are denying is that it was an IP trace. Don't be a lawyer. You're not very good at this.

Very simple. I will tell you this for the millionth time...and I've been straight up with everyone I need to, Lisa.

Someone from this site told me in passing that you lied about owning your own business because you work for an eyeglasses manufacturer. The reason they know this has NOTHING to do with IP traces, you idiot.

So go ahead and bring legal action against this person.

Is someone from the site gonna BAN me? You were trying to give the impression it was someone who had the power to do just that...

You keep saying I lied and I will keep saying THIS... The eyeglass manufacturer is client. I am a consultant at their company. I have never had a casual conversation with anyone here regarding where I work, nor would I tell anyone anyway. I have only worked there since Jan and only consistantly since mid Feb and in those months I did not do much talking to anyone. I have an idea... Get this person to fess up Rikk. If someone told you that I told them what type of comapany I work for, why won't they just step out and admit it to end all of this and save me the trouble of persuing it. Are you going to tell me that you want to protect this person over the Army?

I know that someone here gave you the info...I KNOW IT. POJO's big step in post does not change my mind, infact I would expect nothing else than for him to try and discount my claim to protect the site.

[Matt White]

SLAP IT FLIP IT RUB IT DOWN, OH NO!!!!

[Ned Flanders]

Little lies make Baby Jesus cry!

[Fabulous Shadow]

The only pussy Rikk has ever licked eats MEOW MIX and pee's in a litter box!