What's up with that?

[Matt White]

"Do you believe in the hereafter?"

"Yes."

"Then you know what I here after!"

[Anonymous]

Originally posted by Matt White
"Do you believe in the hereafter?"

"Yes."

"Then you know what I here after!"

Hahahahahahahahaha!!!

Here after...

Classic! :D

Cheers! :bottle:

[Northern Girl]

This thread has gotten pretty crazy, hasn't it?


If you all ONLY KNEW what I'm really like.

[Northern Girl]

Originally posted by bueno bob
Appreciate the sentiments, NG!

Honestly, who knows? I'm sure we could make it happen easily enough, but you see...I'm the weakest link...I have a tendency to freak out about things sometimes, and I'm not sure what mindset or emotional ground I'd walk away from an experience like that with...mostly, she's not sure...meaning WE'RE not sure, which is basically the reason it hasn't happened yet. That and women are really high maintenance, we'd need to find somebody who wouldn't fall in love with her (or me, I guess) and be willing to just get her ass out in the morning and not call three times a day thereafter (which, I guess, she's had some problems with in times past, lmao...hey, I can understand, my old ladies' TOTALLY lovable, there's a reason I've been with her for five years now).

Bob~

After reading that, I'm thinking it's something you probably shouldn't do. If you are worried about emotions getting involved, then they surely will. Besides, anyone who can have sex without ANY emotions involved kind of scare me. That doesn't sound like you or your wife. And as much shit as I talk, it's not me either. Why do you think I know so much about masturbation? LOL. If I were you, I'd keep your lovely wife all to yourself!!

[Cathedral]

Originally posted by bueno bob
Appreciate the sentiments, NG!

Honestly, who knows? I'm sure we could make it happen easily enough, but you see...I'm the weakest link...I have a tendency to freak out about things sometimes, and I'm not sure what mindset or emotional ground I'd walk away from an experience like that with...mostly, she's not sure...meaning WE'RE not sure, which is basically the reason it hasn't happened yet. That and women are really high maintenance, we'd need to find somebody who wouldn't fall in love with her (or me, I guess) and be willing to just get her ass out in the morning and not call three times a day thereafter (which, I guess, she's had some problems with in times past, lmao...hey, I can understand, my old ladies' TOTALLY lovable, there's a reason I've been with her for five years now).

But, hey, I haven't seen you! Send us a picture or something! And then call us when you're ready to come on down! :D

This post is a sure fire sign that you should refrain from this activity.

If you are ready to get rid of her then go ahead and add a third party to the bed. this kind of thing only works for the shallow minded people who no matter how much they profess love for one another, don't really care about each other.
I have been there, and if the feelings between the couple involved are genuine, it becomes a huge regret and a mistake that destroys their trust in each other.
And they all thought they could handle it before hand, after is too late, bro.

I have never been able to share my ladies, i'm much deeper than that.
But i have been shallow enough to accept offers when i was a single guy.
I do have a couple of female friends that are single and like to throw threesomes and even foursomes with whatever combination of sexes they can find, but in the last 15 years I haven't even thought about being that stupid with my health or future.

Our drummer has always been like that, and in our heyday he was going through women like crazy, so it was easy to attack a woman in tag team fashion....chances are she'd be gone in a year or less and we'd be banging the hell out of another one of his temp live-ins.

If i had been emotionally invested in the women at all, it wouldn't work for me and i'd have no respect for them due to my own old fashioned values.
Sex is one thing, being in love is something completely different.

Oh, and once you do it with two women, sooner or later she'll want you to bring home another guy and you can't deny her that fantasy after she has granted you yours, that just wouldn't be fair and trouble would soon follow.

Some decisions have after-shocks that can be felt for a lifetime, this is defnately one of those decisions.

Good Luck, and Be Careful!

[bueno bob]

All these reasons are exactly why I haven't forced the issue. Oh sure, I rib her about it, and she ribs me about it at times too, but the simple truth of it is this: there's a club about a 20 minute drive away from us called the Ace of Hearts - you pay about $50 as a couple for a membership that lasts a year, you go in on the weekdays or weekends (I guess they're closed on Sunday or something), meet other couples, clothing optional, and basically fuck whoever you decide to so long as their agreeable - which, apparently, they usually are considering it's a swingers club, you know.

There's a REASON I haven't been there (and no, it's not the money). She's gone and said I wouldn't like it...I have this element to me that wants to just go and sit back and watch people get crazy with each other and just kick back with a three mile smile taking it all in, but getting me to participate in something, I think, would be virtually impossible. I have a grate fantasy life, bar none, and no really neat or interesting sexual adventures to brag of (all my old friends had them, I was the lame one of the bunch...). There's a very distinct element of me that WANTS my own adventure (and, honestly, feels I DESERVE it), but...to tell you all the truth, I'm a very boring person in real life and don't honestly have much in the way of ambition or a wild streak, so my guess is that I'll probably always have lovely fantasies about it, but realistically I doubt it'll ever happen, probably because I'll keep it from happening.

I'm such a conflicted creature. Somebody get me a doctor...

[Cathedral]

You and i have a lot in common, but i wasn't always that way. I chilled out the day my first child was born.
Otherwise i'd probably, no, i WOULD be dead right now.

I was pretty wild in my youth, and it is catching up with me as i get older.

You're a good man, Bob........stay that way!

[Anonymous]

Originally posted by Northern Girl
This thread has gotten pretty crazy, hasn't it?


If you all ONLY KNEW what I'm really like.

Well, I don't know what you're really like, but here, you can be anything you want, everyway you want it. You can even be millionaire, like Tom Vu. That's the beauty of the internet.

That said, I imagine you to be a young Geri Halliwell, or someone as hot. Am I right?

Of course, it compares nothing to what Bob-o's probably imagining right now, involving you, him, and wet celery. :D

Cheers! :bottle:

[Matt White]

STELLAR as always NG!!!

[Northern Girl]

Originally posted by Matt White
STELLAR as always NG!!!

Thank you, Matt !




Funny how things females say are judged so differently here from the males. I guess that's the way the world works. Oh well.

[Northern Girl]

Originally posted by Northern Girl
Funny how things females say are judged so differently here from the males. I guess that's the way the world works. Oh well.

Must have been having a pissy moment last night. :D

[Northern Girl]

Originally posted by Imapus Sylicker
I imagine you to be a young Geri Halliwell, or someone as hot. Am I right?

I'm guessing she's younger than I am. And I guess hot is in the eye of the beholder. I have always thought of myself more as the cute girl next door type. Nice, sweet, wholesome Minnesota girl. :D

[bueno bob]

Originally posted by Northern Girl
I'm guessing she's younger than I am. And I guess hot is in the eye of the beholder. I have always thought of myself more as the cute girl next door type. Nice, sweet, wholesome Minnesota girl. :D

Hell yeah, that's what I'm talking bout...corn fed country girl, mmm hmm!!

[bueno bob]

Originally posted by bueno bob
Hell yeah, that's what I'm talking bout...corn fed country girl, mmm hmm!!

Or close enough for government work, anyway.

[Northern Girl]

Originally posted by bueno bob
Hell yeah, that's what I'm talking bout...corn fed country girl, mmm hmm!!

Country girl? Who said that? LOL. Minnesota does have cities, you know. Some pretty big ones too.

No, you're actually right. I was born in Minneapolis but grew up mostly in a rural area. But not on a farm either !!! Another misnomer you all have !! But, yes I say eh a lot !!