Can someone explain Women to me?

[ace diamond]

out here in so cal, you would be quite surprised.

[tajmahal]

Buy the Game by Neil Strauss

The next woman you see that you like approach her at the mall, the coffee shop or at the gas station.

You don't need any lines. They never get approached during the day so they are not expecting it.

Don't wallow in self pity. This is a big turn off for woman.


As Jeff Bridges says to Michelle Pfeiffer in the Fabulous Bakers Boys - "There is always another woman."

[WARF]

Re: Can someone explain Women to me?

Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
Anyway,

It was a shitty spring snow day here in Minneapolis on Monday, and we got like 5 inches wet snow. So, last week I got laid off from my job, my Mom is selling the house that I grew up in, and where I met my best friends in the "hood"...just a bummer to say the least. So I met this girl for lunch, we were going to go to a movie after, but I said let's take a "raincheck" since the snow sucked that day. I didn't sleep the night before, I'm kinda stressed out right now (see above..lol) I was soo freakin tired, I was out of it on the date...I tried to act "myself" but I was kinda like saying to myself (just eat and get the fuck out of here) She's cool, and smoking hot, but I may have fucked it up. After the date she said she was super busy the rest of this week, but wanted to do something the week after (I surprized I remember this after being half awake) and she said she would call me, cool right? I guess? So, I send he a text a couple hours after the date saying thanks, and I had fun..but she never sent anything back, wtf? Well I sent her a E-mail today telling her what was up, I said I may have made a bad first impression, and telling her what's going on in my life right now (she knew before the date that I lost my job) I really have no clue if she was just being friendly saying she wanted to do something in a couple weeks?? Who knows? Anyways, I prolly fucked up with a super hot chick.

Men are from mars, women are from my penis!

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Dude... you said you gave her a text and an email....

Why not call her from your phone?!?!

Text messaging sucks... and her mailbox might have been full...

And who knows if she even checked your email.

Have no fear.... Dr. Ruth WARFenheimer is here...

Woman also feed off of confidence...

If you told her you lost your job... etc etc etc...

You sprayed yourself with anti-pussy repellent...

Next time.... skip the all the bullshit... and slip her some drugs in her martini!

[binnie]

Originally posted by SparkieD
Well, you said yourself that you went out with an "eat and get the fuck out" attitude. That was your problem. You can tell her till you're blue in the face that you weren't yourself, but actions speak louder than words. That chick probably thinks you just weren't into her. You would've been better off postponing the date till you were in a better mood.

That's the best advice posted in this thread so far.

[SparkieD]

Originally posted by binnie
That's the best advice posted in this thread so far.

It's just plain human nature, not gender specific.

[binnie]

On a serious note Nate, I dont think you've got anything to worry about. This isn't the first thread of this type you;ve started, so you obviously have no problems getting dates - the time to worry is when you can't even get that far.

Chin up buddy.

[SparkieD]

Originally posted by tajmahal


Don't wallow in self pity. This is a big turn off for woman.

Yeah, that just screams "I'm a pussy!"

[binnie]

Originally posted by SparkieD
Yeah, that just screams "I'm a pussy!"

LOL!!!

Sympathy, thy name is Sparkie

Seriously though, it's like you said, not gender-specific: who wants to be around someone who wallows in self-pity?

[ThrillsNSpills]

oh man had to guzzle 4 cyberbrews to make it through this thread.

[SparkieD]

Originally posted by binnie
LOL!!!

Sympathy, thy name is Sparkie

Act like a pussy, scare off the pussy. Never been one to mince my words The guy is in here asking for advice on girls. Put bluntly from a woman is the best way to get such advice, right?



And don't go out and buy any stupid books written by some man who thinks he has us figured out. Trust me. He doesn't! Girls who fall for shit written in such books might be good for a good time, but that's about it. If a guy needs a book to tell him how to score like that, he's even dumber than the girls who fall for it.

[scamper]

Originally posted by blonddgirl777
But I know a LOT of people (not necessarely all friends) and from what I hear, dating is a lot like looking for a job...
You have to be "on your best".

I always figured dating was about having a good time with someone. If you trying to be on your best because you need a relationship it just makes you look desperate.

[binnie]

Originally posted by SparkieD
Put bluntly from a woman is the best way to get such advice, right?

Yup.

[blonddgirl777]

Originally posted by scamper
I always figured dating was about having a good time with someone. If you trying to be on your best because you need a relationship it just makes you look desperate.

Well... if you're JUST in for a good time, that's just what you might get... a good time and for that evening only.
If a guy wouldn't bother wearing his nice clothes, smelling good and being on his best behavior (and I said HIS best behavior)... all that, by staying who he is...
If I am not worth that, you are certainly not worth an evening with me!
(I don't mean YOU as in "you"... but guys in general)...

And AS IF... guys would want us to come along in an after workout pony tail, no make-up and home baggy clothes that we wear on "period days"...

Although, I do get "the looks" at the grocery store when not on my best, I know that on a date, I would be expected to be a couple notches above... and SO WOULD YOU!

[blonddgirl777]

Originally posted by scamper
I always figured dating was about having a good time with someone. If you trying to be on your best because you need a relationship it just makes you look desperate.

But I admit that you absolutely DO have to remain genuine and true to yourself... because when looking for a long term relationship, one souldn't lie, put up a face or an act, just to please the other...

As we say in French; "Throw away the natural and it comes back running as fast as it can"!

[LoungeMachine]

Originally posted by SparkieD
Yeah, that just screams "I'm a pussy!"

So does this thread.