Best night of my life!

[NATEDOG001976]

Ahh fuck, she broke it off, I feel like shit. "She said it is not working" this comming after meeting her parents and going to her college graduation and party. She gave some lame thing like "I just don't feel the same anymore like I did" What the fuck? Man, If anyone can make me feel better, please give me some advice. Should I take her bad if she comes back?

This is the worst i've ever felt in my life.

[Northern Girl]

Oh Nate! I didn't want to say anything because you seemed so happy; but I could have predicted this. 22 year old girls do not know what they want. Try a 32-year old instead.

DO NOT TAKE HER BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Jérôme Frenchise]

Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
What the fuck? Man, If anyone can make me feel better, please give me some advice. Should I take her bad if she comes back?

This is the worst i've ever felt in my life.

Damn, I sympathize, Nate... I think NG is right, but I know that it's much easier to give advice than make things work.
At best, she could come back to you, at worst she wouldn't, and in the middle she could take a while and think it all over.
But for the time being, you'll be crossing wild waters, anyway, let's be realistic. However long it takes her to change her unsettled mind - or not. You'll be obsessed for some time, for sure; what's for sure is the ball is in her racket: whatever change that may come, she has to bring it on.
Meanwhile, all I can advise you is to be strong, get as busy as you can for a while...
Cheers, Nate! :bottle:

[NATEDOG001976]

She wants to meet because she feels bad it happend over the phone. I said please don't contact me anymore, I have to move on, no friends, no nothing!

[Northern Girl]

It may not feel like it right now, but it gets a little easier every day; and before you know it, you won't even think about her.

[NATEDOG001976]

Originally posted by Northern Girl
It may not feel like it right now, but it gets a little easier every day; and before you know it, you won't even think about her.

I Feel like shit. I threw up at work last night, broke down and cried in the bathroom. I had to leave her a message. I said "We can't meet, I would be too hard, we can't talk anymore to. I can't believe you pretended, you should be ashamed of yourself, you will realize this down the road that you threw away a good thing. I hope you are happy cause I will be"

[Northern Girl]

Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
I Feel like shit. I threw up at work last night, broke down and cried in the bathroom. I had to leave her a message. I said "We can't meet, I would be too hard, we can't talk anymore to. I can't believe you pretended, you should be ashamed of yourself, you will realize this down the road that you threw away a good thing. I hope you are happy cause I will be"

You are doing the right thing for yourself. I wouldn't even talk to her either. I've been in this situation where I still had to see the guy at work everyday. Took a lot of time and some Prozac because it was always in my face. The girl he cheated with was my best friend and she worked there too. Nice! Yeah, it's much easier if you never have to see her again.

[Northern Girl]

And...it's good to have your heart broken at least once...it will make you appreciate the RIGHT girl all that much more when you meet her.

[NATEDOG001976]

Originally posted by Northern Girl
And...it's good to have your heart broken at least once...it will make you appreciate the RIGHT girl all that much more when you meet her.

It's been broken more than once, I think it's gone now. This was like are first small fight, what the hell, is there something wrong with me? I feel so numb, I feel sick again.

[Northern Girl]

Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
It's been broken more than once, I think it's gone now. This was like are first small fight, what the hell, is there something wrong with me? I feel so numb, I feel sick again.

A small fight? So, was it a fight, or did she say it was over?

OK, I'm going to contradict myself right now and say maybe you should meet with her one time and get some answers. You sound like you are in shock and you had no idea it was coming. If you don't really know her reasons, you will always wonder and blame yourself.

[NATEDOG001976]

It's over, she said it was not working out. She gave some lame answers, no need to meet.

[NATEDOG001976]

She said she does not feel the same as she did. So it's her, most likely her age.

[Northern Girl]

Well, then it IS her and don't wonder what is wrong with you! Honestly, I think she met someone else. You are better off without her.

[NATEDOG001976]

Oh well, work should be a little easier tonight. Fuck, this is hard.

[Northern Girl]

Hang in there, Nate. It will get better. It wasn't meant to be for a reason.