Best night of my life!

[NATEDOG001976]

Ok, I have a question!

As you all know I'm having a blast with this girl. Great Dates, Sex, Conversation, holding her in my arms, fun ect. Is 3 weeks to soon to tell her I only want to see her from now on? I think she feels the same, but any advice would be great. You guys have not let me down yet..so fire away!

[bru87tr]

as long as shes into it, why not ?

I will say though, relationships that move too fast are not good. your doing everything now and could burn out the relationship early.

it depends on the individuals but I have found relationships that are very involving and very intense, intimate early on can show problems later on down the road.


but on that same note.... its hard to slow something like this down when its so great for both parties. been there, done that! so I say go with the flow and let it take you down that road. good or bad, if it lasts or doesnt last...... either way some excellent memories will be made!

when its that good and that intense there is no stopping that love train dude! again....... been there.


now party on !

[blonddgirl777]

Originally posted by bru87tr
.... its hard to slow something like this down when its so great for both parties. been there, done that! so I say go with the flow and let it take you down that road. good or bad, if it lasts or doesnt last...... either way some excellent memories will be made!

when its that good and that intense there is no stopping that love train dude! again....... been there.

now party on !

I agree with that... if you are happy with each other, why would you 2 seek elswhere (for now)?
Plus with all those deseases out there... "exclusivity" ain't a bad thing at all!

[Jérôme Frenchise]

Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
Ok, I have a question!

Is 3 weeks to soon to tell her I only want to see her from now on?

I think you shouldn't talk about that at all. I know it's easy to tell when you aren't part of it, but if I were you I wouldn't make projections any further than mid-term, not only because, as you say, it's just been started for three weeks, but also because you never know, really.
Anyway, your problem is a damn fine one to have, you lucky one!

[NATEDOG001976]

Yeah, maybe I'll just wait a little bit and let stuff work it self out. Plus, maybe she will bring it up first, and that's always good.

[Lindsay Lohan]

the best nite of MY life was when i first saw Bob's pix...i lost my heart to him rite then and there!

love ya babe!

[blonddgirl777]

Originally posted by Jérôme Frenchise
... Anyway, your problem is a damn fine one to have, you lucky one!

Listen to an expert by blood!
The French man has spoken... :p

[blonddgirl777]

Originally posted by NATEDOG001976
Yeah, maybe I'll just wait a little bit and let stuff work it self out. Plus, maybe she will bring it up first, and that's always good.

My bet is that it will come up by itself since you 2 are already on the same wavelenght on many other things...

Keep us posted!

[Jérôme Frenchise]

Originally posted by blonddgirl777
Listen to an expert by blood!
The French man has spoken... :p

I wish there were a SMACK smilie.

[blonddgirl777]

Originally posted by Jérôme Frenchise
I wish there were a SMACK smilie.

Now Jérôme, I noticed a difference in dating "policies" between the Americans and us, here in Quebec.

Here, when 2 people are dating each other; having sex and ESPECIALLY great intimacy, they want exclusivity right away. If a girl finds out that he's sleeping with other ones at the same time, she'll get pissed and move on...

I have a feeling that it's like that in France too (Am I wrong)?

Although a couple years ago, was in Paris and saw "Greg. le Millionaire" and I thought; are we the only ones who don't really care about those reallity shows where someone has to decide on who they love etc...

I guess we prefer to listen to our gut feelings, rather than thinking about all "pros and cons"?
Wich is much more romantic, when it comes from the heart...

[Jérôme Frenchise]

Originally posted by blonddgirl777
Now Jérôme, I noticed a difference in dating "policies" between the Americans and us, here in Quebec.

Here, when 2 people are dating each other; having sex and ESPECIALLY great intimacy, they want exclusivity right away. If a girl finds out that he's sleeping with other ones at the same time, she'll get pissed and move on...

I have a feeling that it's like that in France too (Am I wrong)?

Although a couple years ago, was in Paris and saw "Greg. le Millionaire" and I thought; are we the only ones who don't really care about those reallity shows where someone has to decide on who they love etc...

I guess we prefer to listen to our gut feelings, rather than thinking about all "pros and cons"?
Wich is much more romantic, when it comes from the heart...

I think you're right about women's need for exclusivity being the same here as in North America. Well, after my own experience, and other people's stories I've heard.
I remember leaving a girlfriend in 2003, in the north. She called me on my first day back to school and, as I was taking ice cubes out of my fridge to put into my drink, she got like wild because she thought I was not alone... I didn't really care about what she might think (I wasn't hooked to her like she was to me), but I insisted there was no other girl with me, which was true and she apparently wouldn't believe... Some other ones will ask me about other girls, some others won't, for whatever reasons, if not because they don't want to get hooked, just like I don't want to either. Why bother about anything when all you want is sin?... Anyway. Each time I've left a g/f up there in the north, they always were inquisitive. Well, I must admit they had reasons for that.

Yet, here in Haute-Savoie, girls do not care that much at all. I will come home with them (er... once at a time ) around the middle of the night on a Friday or Saturday night, and they don't give a damn whether So and So still slips under my sheets or not; in fact, they more or less already know each others, and I wonder if there isn't a kind of dare between them. Like: "Hey, I've been there too, little one, so shut up."
Of course I'm not talking about chicks by the hundreds...
I couldn't really compare American and European ways, as there are differences inside the same country that I've noticed.
As for "Greg the brainless millionaire", BG, my dear, it's only "reality" TV. That is, as far from reality as TV programs can be.

[blonddgirl777]

Originally posted by Jérôme Frenchise
... Friday or Saturday night, and they don't give a damn whether So and So still slips under my sheets or not; in fact, they more or less already know each others, and I wonder if there isn't a kind of dare between them....

I totally understand one night stands and fuck buddies etc... but I think (I could be wrong) that our fellow Nate might be on to something a little more serious (or deep) here?

[bru87tr]

he's doomed...lol

[NATEDOG001976]

Originally posted by blonddgirl777
I totally understand one night stands and fuck buddies etc... but I think (I could be wrong) that our fellow Nate might be on to something a little more serious (or deep) here?

I have a good feeling about her, we have great chemistry...like none I've ever felt before.

[Jérôme Frenchise]

Originally posted by blonddgirl777
I totally understand one night stands and fuck buddies etc... but I think (I could be wrong) that our fellow Nate might be on to something a little more serious (or deep) here?

You're right, BG, I'm off topic. This isn't about living in the fast line (la vie de patachon...).

Best of luck to you, Nate.