A Question For The Guys

[ThrillsNSpills]

Nobody's going to buy a drink for a neurotic ball of psychosis who inevitably is going to blame the guy for everything that's gone wrong
with their lives. Especially someone who's just looking for a reason to verbally castrate the guy due to some past issues that are completely unrelated to the guy.

love,
tns

[ELVIS]

There are no "rules"

[ELVIS]

Sesh


Cheers!

[jhale667]

3 Friends Dan conmee jhale667

i'm thinkin' hale might hate gar

Do I think GARfail's the biggest loser/scumbag on the site? Oh yeah. But hate? That would require effort. He's not worthy of wasting effort on, wouldn't you agree?

He's just confused. Hale isn't a hater, deep down.

Of course not.

[Nickdfresh]

Telling someone to do what makes them happy is judgmental? I'm not sure you know what the word means.

I'm thinking, "Good for you, if that makes you happy, do it!" If you are thinking something else, I guess that's your issue.

Sure. Whatever...I'm sure you're not trying to sound superior or anything...

[Nickdfresh]

Did you say "buying strangers drinks is not too common"?

How long have you been single, NG? A week?

C'mon...

Yeah. I see it all the time. And it's not just "shy guys that can't talk to women" that do it. It's often the "playa'" using it as an excuse to cling on to someone. Personally, I find it a bit boorish and filled with a lot of negative connotations. I also find it sort of offensive when little girls, that I've never met or talked too before in a bar, basically ask you to buy them drinks because that's what they think men are supposed to do...

[Nickdfresh]

I suppose it worked as i'm soon to be married...

Congrats. I hope she makes you a nicer person...

[Nickdfresh]

There are no "rules"

Good to hear. My friend is engaged to a really cool girl, but he was her first ever. I get the feeling that it's probably not going to work and she's going to just explode at some point and want to be with other men...

[Seshmeister]

And that's when you pounce?

[Nickdfresh]

And that's when you pounce?

Nooooo....

I've only actually met her twice.

[jhale667]

I also find it sort of offensive when little girls, that I've never met or talked too before in a bar, basically ask you to buy them drinks because that's what they think men are supposed to do...

True. And no matter how gorgeous she is, it kinda ruins it when the first thing a girl says to you when she walks up to you in a bar is "Hey, buy me a drink". Sometimes they don't even phrase it like a request....My first impulse in that scenario is usually to respond "Why, are you gonna blow me?" I mean, it's just rude...ask me nicely, FFS...

[Seshmeister]

I think the best option is to look as though you can't afford to buy them a drink and then get them to buy you one.

[Seshmeister]

Sesh


Cheers!

PM me an invite to the bachelor party.

[Nickdfresh]

True. And no matter how gorgeous she is, it kinda ruins it when the first thing a girl says to you when she walks up to you in a bar is "Hey, buy me a drink". Sometimes they don't even phrase it like a request....My first impulse in that scenario is usually to respond "Why, are you gonna blow me?" I mean, it's just rude...ask me nicely, FFS...

I think the best option is to look as though you can't afford to buy them a drink and then get them to buy you one.

Actually, if I were really pissed, I'd find the most homely, loneliest girl (or one that just looked sad) in the bar and buy her a drink right in front of them, then give the bitch demanding alcohol the smuggest, dirtiest look I could muster --if I didn't laugh first--without saying a word...

[Seshmeister]

Actually the best technique is to find the bored girl who is out in a group of three with a couple.

Well at least it used be back in the Late Cambrian Period when I did that sort of thing...