A Question For The Guys

[Northern Girl]

It seems to work out better, in the long term, if you start with some common ground/interests.

I think you are right.

[kwame k]

never, i repeat, never go to r&r stix in east mesa. sixty year old bartenders in NEGLIGEE !!

They ought to have a warning label on that bar like a pack of smokes have on them.

[kwame k]

I think you are right.

More than likely not........I did go through my first divorce last year

[Northern Girl]

Seriously NG, if a guy does that, he has 0 game and probably no rap at all.

Well, I'm not really interested in "game" or hearing some playa's rap anyway.

I think more than not, it's just a nice gesture. Approaching strangers can't be easy. I don't do it. The whole bar pick up scene is not for me. Of course, there are nice people in bars. (I mean I'm there, right?) It's hard to know who's sincere, because it is such a cliche pick up place.

I guess that's why I was asking, because I don't want to be rude to someone who is just being nice.

As far as guys buying me drinks, I don't need it and I don't ask for it. I have plenty of money to buy my own drinks. If I did meet someone and enjoyed talking to him and he bought me a drink, I'd buy him one in return. If we were dating, I'd expect to take my turn paying for dinner or whatever to. If the guy didn't like it, that'd be the end of that. You don't date a guy to have someone pay for everything for you. You don't marry a guy to have someone to take care of you or pay your bills, which is why I think alimony is a bunch of bullshit.

[Northern Girl]

More than likely not........I did go through my first divorce last year

Your FIRST divorce? LOL. Well, I hope there aren't any more.

[Sensible Shoes]

Yeah, yeah, I used to think like you. But now I have no money, and I'm just lookin' for a sugar daddy. Drinks, rent, whatever.

[Northern Girl]

LOL. Whatever makes you happy!

[Nickdfresh]

Just buy her a virtual drink with paypal and pull your pud, Dickforbreath...

Good one, Elvira. How's the "I'm a fanatical Bible-thumping Nurse who can't have a drink because I'm an addict" pick up line going for you?

Oh, right! Never mind...

[Nickdfresh]

Nope. Just reacting to what they said and asking questions.

Yet contradicting yourself and your premise the whole time...

[Blackflag]

Good one, Elvira. How's the "I'm a fanatical Bible-thumping Nurse who can't have a drink because I'm an addict" pick up line going for you?

Oh, right! Never mind...

I'm sorry, did you just bust on somebody for being a recovered alcoholic? Holy shit, you're low class.

I mean, let's keep it real: you live in Buffalo.

[Nickdfresh]

I'm sorry, did you just bust on somebody for being a recovered alcoholic? Holy shit, you're low class.

Well drama queen martyr bitch. I actually "busted" someone for making completely unprovoked, disrespectful dickhead comments to me. It's not my fault he's an addict that seeks solace in some bullshit fake form of extreme Jesus Christ--then runs around judging everybody and completely contradicting what he's supposed to believe...

Maybe if you read the thread real slowly, Blackdouche, you'll clearly see who insulted and started talking shit first. But then, you're just another phony intellectual pussy out to find a venue to rationalize your personal bitterness...

I mean, let's keep it real: you live in Buffalo.

Yeah, super-genius, I "really" live in Buffalo, Sherlock fucking Holmes. Do you live in London?

[Blackflag]

Yes, you caught me being a low-class dickhead. But instead of admit it, I'll just throw insults at you, too.

Yeah, super-genius, I "really" live in Buffalo, Sherlock fucking Holmes. Do you live in London?

So now you're repudiating Buffalo?

[Nickdfresh]

If you're going to fake-quote me, at least use the occasional three syllable word, fuck stamper...

So now you're repudiating Buffalo?

Well, maybe you can tell me specifically how so most can understand what the fuck you're talking about? Good luck on that challenge, John Hinkely Junior...

[Blackflag]

use the occasional three syllable word,

You're really got a chip on your shoulder, don't you?

And you spelled Hinckley wrong.

[Nickdfresh]

You're really got a chip on your shoulder, don't you?

That's a fair statement. But then again, you should talk...

And you spelled Hinckley wrong.

Good! I don't respect attempted-murderer trash enough to spell their name right...