Your experiences and how you handle them is what you become.
I think Elvis' point may be more towards regardless of history...we are told to treat everyone equally.
Therefore...we should all be treated equally....but there are double standards.
Easy for me to say....I live on the prairies....I grew up in a white town.
At the same time I have experienced situations where me being a white male was a disadvantage...but I always had options.
My wife has experienced losing job postings due to her being white...preference given to First Nations...regardless of Union Seniority or Job Qualifications.
I do not hold a grudge against First Nations who slaughtered some of my French relatives over 300 years ago...I also do not hold a grudge against the British who treated my Irish relatives like garbage building Eastern Canada.
So....life is not always fair.
But....I will share one story with no real point.
In Mexico last year on a zip line excursion.
Very long line up going up the tower...slow moving.
Everybody is laughing having a good time....Mexicans, Canadians, American's, Europeans.
Hot as hell....everybody is thirsty.
A kid drops a water bottle...everybody makes jokes about jumping on it.
One middle aged guy yelled out N..... pile.
It got very quiet and awkward...he realized there was a negative reaction.
Did not even cross his mind that there where Blacks from various nations in the crowd when he opened his mouth.
I think as a whole....people are getting better....years ago there would have been laughter.
Eventually the fun started again but he stayed low key....for the most part nobody included him...message sent.
There will always be an asshole in the crowd.
I think Elvis' point may be more towards regardless of history...we are told to treat everyone equally.
Therefore...we should all be treated equally....but there are double standards.
Easy for me to say....I live on the prairies....I grew up in a white town.
At the same time I have experienced situations where me being a white male was a disadvantage...but I always had options.
My wife has experienced losing job postings due to her being white...preference given to First Nations...regardless of Union Seniority or Job Qualifications.
I do not hold a grudge against First Nations who slaughtered some of my French relatives over 300 years ago...I also do not hold a grudge against the British who treated my Irish relatives like garbage building Eastern Canada.
So....life is not always fair.
But....I will share one story with no real point.
In Mexico last year on a zip line excursion.
Very long line up going up the tower...slow moving.
Everybody is laughing having a good time....Mexicans, Canadians, American's, Europeans.
Hot as hell....everybody is thirsty.
A kid drops a water bottle...everybody makes jokes about jumping on it.
One middle aged guy yelled out N..... pile.
It got very quiet and awkward...he realized there was a negative reaction.
Did not even cross his mind that there where Blacks from various nations in the crowd when he opened his mouth.
I think as a whole....people are getting better....years ago there would have been laughter.
Eventually the fun started again but he stayed low key....for the most part nobody included him...message sent.
There will always be an asshole in the crowd.
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